Kabhi kabhi chup rahna hi kitna sahi hota hai naβ¦
Silence is the best answer π€
I know⦠bol kar aap khud hi ko emotionally effect karte ho bahut baar
I feel at times itβs okay to just mind your own business rather than thinking about others n helping them outβ¦ bcoz ppl donβt take that in the way you are doing itβ¦ i mean in a good wayβ¦ so in those situations itβs better you donβt suggest or help themβ¦ stay silent and just mind your own business
I agree with youβ¦ i tried helping and the response wasnβt that good, then I ended up saying kabhi kabhi chup rahna hi sahi hotaβ¦ bcoz koshish ki but samne wale ko samaj nai aaya ki hum unki help kar rahe rather unhe laga khud ko sambhalna nai aata humko kya suggest kar rahe chizeβ¦
Toh laga chalo chup rahte hai aur bas tamasha dekhte hai, although mera nature aise nai⦠bahut opposite type ki hu, but jab ek limit hojati tab you have understand ki step back is only a good thing left for you
I feel after a really good time, i found someone soo matured here to answer the whole thing in a sensible mannerβ¦
Ppl like you we need more around and hope you are there to help them too as you have mentioned above.
Coming to the point which you are talking above i completely agree with you but mere sath ek problem hai mai har kisi ke samne itne ache se har chiz express nai kar patiβ¦
I feel thik hai na my intentions arenβt bad towards them, if they donβt get me thatβs okay. Mai aapni jagha thik hi hu na agar unhe galat bhi lag rahi hu toh, har jagha justify karne ki jarurat nai lagti bahut baar. Aur mai kar bhi nai pati which is bad I know.
But i completely understand and agree with whatever you said above.
Ek baat bolu, bade din baad aise laga yha koi genuinely itna acha baat kar raha and let me tell you honestly that aap jitna patience show kar rahe ho yaha reply karne mai ppl doesnβt show i guess these days.
Aur rahi baat aapne jo kaha uper ki subko please karna is not our thing, but mera is like mai nai chahti mere karn koi hurt ho ya bothered feel kare, i know ye soch hamesa lekar chalna sahi nai hota but i feel mai koshish toh kar hi sakti hu na. Unintentionally chize hojaye toh alag baat hai but I donβt want ki intentionally kuch ho mere karn seβ¦ toh mujhe lagta jisse bother horha mujse and that person is not that important to me mai khud ko kuch waqt tak alag kar leti hu unseβ¦
Aur the point ki try to respect those who respect is really important. Even mai toh ye bhi believe karti hu ki agar koi aapke sath galat na kare even though vo kisi aur ke sath kare aise log kah rahe toh believe na karoβ¦ kyuki vo insan aapke sath sahi hai toh ye chiz bahut hai, agar vo aapke sath galat hota toh vo galat hai varna naiβ¦ aise mera sochna haiβ¦ toh jo aapke sath acha kare vo toh acha hi deserve kregaβ¦
And thank you so much that u understand and respect my nature typeβ¦
Btw if you donβt mind whatβs your age ??
Yar aapki baate π§‘
Bahut hi sahi hai and aise thought process hona bhi bahut important hai aajkal, we rarely find ppl aajkal aise aur toh aur I feel you have observed things alot around youβ¦
I m glad ki humne humare thoughts share kiye yaha, and I m soo sure ki aap yha jis bhi intention se aaye the but you are helping ppl alot here!!
God bless you hamesa muskurate raho, khush raho !! π
Hehe samaj gai mai thi, bahut acha laga kisi ko itna sunn kar bcoz yha itne patients se log Kam hi baat karte haiβ¦
Yha kya in general also aajkal sub log bhag dhud mai lage haiβ¦kisi ke pass itna tym i feel aise express kareβ¦ acha laga that you are doing it to me π
Aur rahi baat emotions ki toh i m a biggggg emotional fool too, but mere se koi pyar se baat karle mai uski ho chali jaisi hu, but i m trying to know ppl n making myself understand ki haan thoda sambhal kar try to understand ppl jaise haiβ¦
Aur rahi family wali baate toh haan vo toh subse important hote hi hai, aapko unka dhyn toh rakhna hi haiβ¦
Mai toh bahut tym se hu yha, but on off rahti hu not like regular basis perβ¦ toh jab maan kiya tb aajao aur khud ko express kardo aur kuch dusro ki sunn lo aur kuch ache logo se interaction karβ¦ acha acha feel karo basβ¦
Toh sorry mat kaho aap aise, kyuki acha lagta koi aise express karta khud ko toh.
Thank you for counting on me !! I m happy ππ§‘
You also have habit to take screenshots aise random chizo ke chats n msgs ke π
Kyuki I do have it myself and coming to my age I m 26yrs old.
Haan yaha aajkal bahut kuch chal rha haiβ¦ like kuch toh bahut funny hota aur kuch bahut hi extreme level walaβ¦
Kabhi kabhi hum jaise log mil jate jo bas thoughts exchange kar, point of view jaan bhi better feel karteβ¦ humko thodi khud ki tarif kar leni chahiyeβ¦ we deserve it π€π€
Aur pls donβt be sorry for anything, itβs a pleasure to talk to someone like you, who has a very sensible approach towards life and itβs situationsβ¦
I am genuinely feeling ki koi sach mai itne bade bade comments bhi kar rha hai on a post aise and expressing himselfβ¦ So itna mat socho aapβ¦ aaramse baat karo, boloβ¦ aap meri baate sunn rahe n mai aapkiβ¦ two way conversation hai π
Hahaha okayβ¦