Just wanted to ask every male best friends here. Please give your opinion
Why did my guy best friend has suddenly been distant and the reason stated by him is that he is “busy”. I tried to ask him, did i do anything to offend him or hurt him but he remains adamant to being “busy” all time. Is it reasonable to being such busy that rn we have no contact situation.
P.s - recently few days back i messaged him i am missing him bad and he replied “control 👀”. so just to clarify i messaged immediately that it was not out of any wrong intentions, i said it in a friendly way. And he replied that he said the same in genric sense. Idk after this conversation i found him being “busy” all the time. What is this? Am i doing something wrong? How long does it take to message once in a while. Also he ignores all the calls i make to mend the situation.
Also He is single since few months otherwise I wouldn’t have messaged about me missing him even in good friendly way.
Leave him. No one is that busy. If h comes back, you may decide .
You are right. I will wait patiently. But i can’t and I won’t leave him. That’s not me. He is a good guy. yes, I won’t hurt my self respect anymore or beg him to talk. I’ll just be here and wait.
I’m saying this just based on the conversation you have shared… may be after the ‘miss you’ text he might’ve thought that you may have slight feelings for him (even though you have explained that it was just in a friendly way) I think he doesn’t want to hurt you by giving you false hope if that was the case.
There can be high chance of this scenario. Thanks for your POV
