Just wanted a genuine thoughts of you guys. I have a friend and (we both are female in case you guys are wondering and it’s just a normal friend issue nothing more than that). Well the thing is we became a little distanced in February and we didn’t talked for one month, and we catched up each other in the end of march. And now things are normal between us like it used to be. But idk why I feel like she kinds of don’t put much efforts on our friendship, I don’t go to school ( i am almost 19) but she do goes because she don’t go for coaching or anything, she just have a one hour online class in the evening, as much as I remember I put decent efforts in our friendship, for example calling her , texting her and giving her some letters telling her how grateful I am for this friendship and so and so. A week ago was her birthday, I specially came to school just to gift her a card and a small gift to make her feel happy. But I feel like I dont get the efforts reciprocated, she will put efforts very rarely and only when she feels like. On Sunday she texted me that she would call me on Wednesday (she texted almost after 3 weeks by herself ) and I was waiting for her call and she didn’t called me. And this is already happened 3-4 times before as well. Idk what’s wrong or maybe I am the one overthinking.
You call her!
I call her almost every time , shouldn’t she also be the one to think about me?
If that’s the case! Leave it.
Wdym by that? Leave the friendship?
It will fade away anyway! Because she doesn’t care enough to kp up the relation with u, and it’s unfair to do one way friendship. Move on u will find better ppl
