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Just want to let my emotions and feelings out as I have no one to talk to or I donโ€™t want to feel week infront of my friends.
So, I met this guy on a dating app and it all started really well and we both were not actually looking for anything serious. We hooked up and he moved out of the city after few days. After the hookup, things chaged a bit and we both confessed it. Still we didnโ€™t escalate it to relationship as both of us needed some time but weโ€™re sure that we want to escalate it to romantic relationship. We were in touch throughout, did video calls and used to text each other. But after a month and a half his response went dry and now itโ€™s close to 2 months and he is going out with some other girl. I donโ€™t have any problem with that as we both decided to socialize over dating app. But, you can feel the energy through text, that feeling of being unwanted. So, even I am not giving him much bhav. But, why are people like this? Donโ€™t do promises of such extent if you cannot keep it, not even for a fucking 2 month. Now I see the reason of him being in 3 relationships in past 1 year lol. I am hurt and feeling bad but I know this too shall pass. :))

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Bingo you are not alone, this happened with me too. Same scenario same story but 3-4 months and a girl. I was hurt too but moved on, โ€œTIME KA KEL HE BASโ€. Just focus on you thing everything will be good.

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Oh haha, good to know that I am not the only stupid person :P

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contracts XD.
Just keep this in mind before you mingle again. no one is permanent in our life. PAIN KAM HOGA, if same scenario hits again. lol

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Anonymous
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True. But not gonna mingle again yaaaar. I hate feeling this way. Especially, this stupid.

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haha, that was not supped, we are humans and human emotions/hormones are (x, y, z, GALI). Which we cannot control. Han we can hold for some times, like a month or years (depends on how bad it was last time) but after that, we are back but more careful.

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AK @aloksingh23

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now as you can see I am more stupid ;_; .

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I think whatever happened, happened for good. I learnt a lesson. But, I believe people shouldnโ€™t be hurt in this way, it affects us in long term. It stays with us in the form of trust issue and constant insecurity.

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Haha. Itโ€™s okay Alok :P

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of course, These are just bad experience for good future. Thatโ€™s what I think. And obviously, A future of an innocent is dangerous. so we learnt our lessons XD.

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;; ;;

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U r positive

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Anonymous
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I am strong I guess. Or I just pretend to be strong :')

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Anonymous
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I think u started not caring about others

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