Just had a fight with my partner. Just something he said made me angry and I let him know too I'm angry but he never asked what's bothering me, just kept talking random things so I told him you don't care about me and he started with how he's having this n that problems in his life, but that's no excuse if he can send me random posts he sure as hell can ask what's made me angry when I told him that I am angry. Still!! I don't know what is wrong with him and I'm tired being ignored. 

Umm problems fake nahi h that I can assure. But haa woh excuse valid nhi h he shud ask me what's bothering me. But Maine ye pattern bhi dekha h kabhi kuch aisa hogya he's always told about his problems so uk I'm not having it rn. Problems toh sabke life m hi hote h. But I just feel ki he's afraid of confrontation or scared of my anger so trying to escape. 

See.  What I can think is that Problems genuine hai ya nahi we don’t know.  But if he was the right one for you he should have ignored his own problems and tried to calm you down.  
Try to talk it out.  Fir bhi agar wo nahi samajhta hai then you know what to do.  Decide you want to stay happy or stay bothered. And you can be happy alone also. 

Uk i told him twice that in angry on him. And matlab gusse m nhi bola. Said ki I'm katti with u. And u don't even care about me to ask what's wrong. Still he didn't ask. All that he replied was, if u think i don't care about u then I cannot change what u feel! And accept my apology if u can. Reham krra jaise mujhpe. Main boli m nhi krungi. Sorry kis baat ka? Pucha bhi nhi. 

Dude don’t say ki I’m katti with you.  Aise to mazak hi samjhega na.  I’m a boy and I have a problem that I cannot share my feelings and i cannot express what I feel at the moment.  Shayad uske saath bhi aisa hi hai.  
Talk to him phle ache se.  Because baat karogi tabhi sort hoga. Varna to 😑

Bhai pehle katti bola usne mazak m liya fir bola I'm really angry. Fir pucha why fir maine bola you don't care cz katti se pehle bhi bola tha I'm angry with u still he had not responded fir maine jab bola u don't care uspe reply Diya ki uska ye woh problem chal raha....fir m boli rehne do fir. Fir sirf sorry bolta pucha kuch nhi what's bothering me or why I am angry 

Maybe he’s having a hard time too.  Try to ask him properly.  Aise don’t assume anything.  Maybe it’s something serious.  

No it's the usual about job n all. And i just feel if he can send me random posts and good morning he can very well ask me what's bothering me. I mean this is the bare minimum yarr. M kidhr usko chaand taare todke laane k liye bolri 

Ha fair enough.  But usko samjhao.  Without doing that kuch nahi hoga.

He said ho sake toh maaf krna m boli nhi krungi toh bas no reply. Gayab. Mera nhi mann krra ab baat krne ka yarr. Hadh h ladkiya toh nothing nothing bolke chali jaati h idhr m do baar batayi ki m gussa hu pyar se bhi bataya ki katti hu. Fir bhi kuch nhi. Mein nhi kuch samjhane wali ab 

Pata nahi, it's like my trigger point. Being ignored so I'm really not in the mood to compromise I cannot repeat my past mistakes 

Yeah😪😪 but we can decide na how much to tolerate 

But I really have no sense of where to draw the line😭😭

I know.  Even I don’t like being ignored.  I become vulnerable.  
But it’s okay.  That’s life. 

Relationships

Any transgender or shemale here?

LGBTQ

There are so many posts here where i want to reply, where i have somewhat helpful to say but when I start typing the response i just feel like i have no idea what I'm doing. It sucks, i want to help people but how? 

Confusion

Yeah. Clear as a crystal. I can't comprehend what you want and kept on ignoring me. No worries I'll stay silent whenever you're around even for the rest my life. It seems that you don't like me. You only see me if you need something from me. Don't worry, you're welcome. 

Other

*Is there any therapist/psychiatrist here?*


Self Love

Who loves night study 🌌♥️.... Let's do it come with me 

Competition


Distraction means shifting or moving your attention away. It does not mean that the pain is no longer there. It just means that you use your brain to focus your attention onto something else. You can put your pain in the background and focus instead on playing games, counting, using breathing techniques and many other activities. One of the things that you can do to limit the amount of time you spend worrying about or being afraid of pain, is to use distraction.
#psychiatristinsight

Affirmations

Is some one rich enough to date me at Lucknow ? 😄
Intrested people may comment !

Happy

There is a guy who was my best friends really good friend. When we all had a get together he too came. He met me and then immediately sent me friend request. He continued texting me and I too replied . I found him friendly. He is a deep thinker and very genuine. We have good laughter when we meet and he sometimes calls me too so it’s all in good will of friendship. He always compliments me and also said he had a crush on me and calls me beautiful. 

In our talks few days back he also mentioned to me about his long distant girlfriend but doesn’t talk much about her. Now he has shifted to different state for job but still He always sends me good morning texts and asks how my day went. Since I came to know he has a girlfriend I don’t text him and act very formal. I’m confused about his behaviour so I’m maintaining my distance.  But why would he ask for my advice or ask little things when he already has a gf and had even gone to meet her. It’s very disheartening . 

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