Jst had a breakup.....till today din have the courage .....was in a confusion wethr or not to....i felt that our relationshp was not a genuine 1 both of us wer tired of each othr...even if we marry it wont go well....i always felt he had some toxic traits....my instinct always signalled me that this was not gonna b gud....but my heart used to always ignore it....i dont knw wat feeling i have now....i still luv him...but i m jst done wid this....throughout the relationshp i had this confusion wether this guy wud be gud 4 me....i havent felt that pure feel of luv frm him..... I dont knw wethr its a ryt decision or not....i will miss him....anyway watever comes up shud b dealt with...

It's ok .... life has much more good things waiting for you ❤️....it will definitely be okay after few days

Relationships

Today i met him in a marriage and he introduced me to his whole family saying i am his girlfriend..but we were not talking from a long time...he was showing attitude and was not giving any Importance to me in past days but today suddenly he introduced me to his whole family...that gave me butterflies..I m so confused what should i do? He just ignored me for like more than one week we can say even more coz last time too when we talked after 2 months it was also because i texted him first..and then we just fought and then again we didn't talk for more than 1 week After the last fight when he was wrong..he never realised his mistake and after a long time he was talking soo casually like nothing happen he was not sorry for his mistakes or he talked about that last fight..he just abandoned me saying very hurtful things..when I was crying he was like go and do this drama somewhere else:) and today he was like she is my girlfriend..I don't know what the fuck is wrong with him

3am Thoughts

Why it is so  difficult  to  move on  !!!why people  we love can't love  us  back! I love  a boy who was my childhood friend .He  used  to  date  my friend  !! I confessed  my feelings to him things  went bad they broke  up  because  of  me ! He hates  me  now  ! It has been  3 years we haven't  talked  to  each  other ....but this  3 years  were so difficult  for  me  Still I can't  stop thinking  about  him !I am always  dream  about  us being  together  ....I tried  to  date and hooked  up  with  a  guy just to erase  his  memories  a way to move  on  ..Eventually  he  left  me as we couldn't  get  along  as  I still got 
feelings  for  him  that gave  me  one  more  wound!! After  3 years  I  got to know  he is dating  one  of  my  good  friend  .....It feels   like  somebody  is  killing  me  making  cuts  on my body whenever  I  see  them  together ...It is hard to avoid  them !!the way he loving her adoring  her is affecting  me!I should  be  happy  for them  but I can't  imagine  myself  with  any  other  guys...He is the only  one  for me idk why I can't  vibe with any other guy!!

Why is that you can be sure about someone and can't be sure about " commitment" ? Is it okay to feel this way? Why is tha we can't let go of someone , even if we try to convince ourselves that we can't lose our self-respect why can't we let go of the person in our thoughts? I like a guy , I told him , he clearly said he never felt that way , we are pretty close and now we haven't spoke for 20 days , I dont text him and he didn't.. somtimes I feel he treats me like my other close person of his .. I wanna move on.. I am never a girl wh sits and cry over a man .but why is it confusing? 

I have tried talking to many new people, but nobody is quite like him. The comfort and safety I felt with him are unmatched, and I haven't been able to find that with anyone else. Lately, I've been struggling to focus on my work, and my productivity has plummeted because I can't function properly without him. Deep down, I know he's not good for me, but he's like a drug, and I feel like I'm in dire need of him. My life has come to a standstill without him, and I despise this overwhelming feeling.

Exhausted

Hey. Long story short, I met a guy online I was totally attracted towards him. Started liking him. We started talking daily. He too developed feelings for me. After giving it a good time of two months I said yes to him for starting a relationship. Now a little background about the guy. He loves me so much, understands me like no one else do, so so so much open about his feelings, keeps reminding me how special I am to him, nd I find it funny that he wants to marry me haha. This all seems so sweet to me in the beginning, I liked how genuine nd caring He is. But I don't knw what's going on with me since past few weeks. My attraction towards him is fading day by day. I dont feel like talking to him. It feels like I am giving him my time out of any obligation. I am totally fine nd can spend my whole day without msging him nd talking to him. There was a time when I used to miss him throughout d day. But it's all gone now😭. He is noticing all this nd sometimes asks that if I want he will leave. That's the funkin prblm!! thought of not having him in my life scares me nd at the same time I feel like I am no more interested in him. I feel so guilty sometimes. Please help me out what should I do. Is it that when someone shares there feelings way more than required, we start loosing intrest in them. One more thing I haven't met him yet. I feel like everything will get back to normal once I meet him. 

I am a working woman, I can buy whatever I want to and pay all my bills by myself. 
Recently got married and about to complete 2 months of our marriage. As I am financially stable I am not at all dependent upon my husband but there are few things I am expecting from him. 
His time, care, love (physical need) & affection. For which he is lacking. And unwillingly we are leading to a fight.

Am I demanding too much from him?
Are my expectations too high?? 


Marriage

This is about a person I met online.A complete stranger from a different continent😅.I usually don't speak to guys(I'm an introvert and shy too).Well,online I spoke to few guys for a very short period of time.Maybe few min,an hour or so.But with this man I spoke for days and weeks.I opened up about myself.He also did.We both were not ready for any relationship and stuff.Well,by then I started having feels for him(just a little).I told him also.That was just a confession.But we remained friends.We had a huge fight during our first conversation,followed by 2 or 3 small fights.It was going literally very good when we decided to be friends.i loved it though.When I confessed and were sorting out things,I was lil broken and wanted to go away and not bother him anymore.He persuaded me.So I thought we can be friends..best friends.But he told that he can't be my best friends because if he gets close to me it gives him different kinda thoughts and feelings.He rudely told me that,"I can't be your counselor " so all these goodbye stuffs happened n no. of times by me.But almost all the time I said that I didn't leave..I came back.i wanted to keep all these love and stuffs aside and be friends with him.But now from three days he's saying that he's busy.Sees my texts and tells me that he's busy and will text me later and that later hasn't come yet.Idk why.....
I'm too talkative.i blabber a lot.He doesn't like it though.that's okay. But he listens to me that's enough.
Idk what's going on rn...
Hoping for the best though

Lately my boyfriend has been really clingy, emotional, and he’s been second guessing himself. He’s convinced himself that I don’t love him. And he thinks I’m playing with his feelings. I’ve tried proving it to him many times that I care for him. I fight with my family just to talk to him. We had a friend that I just recently found out that he had feelings for, and my boyfriend had only told me because this “friend” was going to tell me what was going on. So now I’m lost and I don’t know what to do. I love my boyfriend but this is all the time. I haven’t done anything to make my boyfriend doubt my love for him, so something must be up. 

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