I've never been prioritised, no one ever put me first, not my parents, not my friends, In one or other way everyone always made me feel like an outsider, For once I got a person who did give see me as a priority, and now he's away from me too. Without him I feel so alone, so empty, it's like he went away and he took the happiness with him. Now what I have left is hope, Hope of him coming back

I can relate to you. It's almost like we are invisible .people are living a life and I feel like I am just existing without having anybody to share things with.I hope you find your person who gets you . Nobody should have to feel this

3am Thoughts

There’s this guy I like; we work together at same cafe (where we met), we’ve both said we like each other but he doesn’t want to feel too overwhelmed with emotion so basically friends w/ benefits….. we both have anxiety & tbh connect well & we actively try to stay communicative… He’s kissed me before…I don’t know if i should fight for him???

Anxiety

My bf’s ex always tried to text my bf and acted like she was doing him a favor to connect him with other roommates (my bf and his ex are living together as roommates with other two roommates bc they are in a friend group). He realized her problem that she tried to be close to him, and he did not like her, but it’s really annoying to observe what that girl has been trying to do. She also tried to hold my bf’s hand when he was drunk when they broke up, and a friend spoke up about her inappropriate action. Idk what exactly I am feeling, but seeing what she has been up to makes me and my bf uncomfy. 

Frustration

There is this guy who told me that he likes me and I said that I like him too but he never show me that he likes me. He doesn't even text me if I don't text him first. Why did he say he liked me if he was not interested? Idk what to tell him now. It's affecting me.

Stress

My breakup has happened 1 month ago. He is a complete narcissist. He never feels his own fault. We have had a breakup earlier also. So he just showed that it is ending because of me and I used to agree every time. but this time i didn't get manipulated i saw that he treated me very badly. ButI realized this after he left. He has always seen me crying and begging for a relationship.. there is a lot inside me that I have to tell him how wrong he has done to me and I don't want him anymore.. I know he won't realize now but sometime in the future In bad times, I will remember something that happened somewhere, then he will never think like this and what should I write along with it so that he comes back..And even if he doesn't come, then go ahead, he should be guilty, what should I write bcoz while leaving me he said that I don't love you. And no matter how hard we try, nothing can ever be right between us, we are not right for each other.. But what kind of love is this that ends with some fights and never put efforts on its own, then how will it be okay.. And I was loyal, caring, loving, used to keep her on 1st priority, used to consider her problems as my own,you would have taken care of me a little bit, whatever was lacking in me.. i just want i wish i came to me and said i am sorry lets  back together. But i know this will not happen. But i want what to do

Boyfriend

Hi,
4 years ago, I had a crush on one of my colleagues(can say one sided love).
I confessed my feelings to him but he decently dodged the confession. 
 Pendamic came and we started work from home. After a few months we both switched to another companies. We used to talk occasionally on chat, I used to keep waiting for his texts his small gesture or gif made my heart flutter.. it was hard to control my one sided feeling so I decided to stop talking to him.

Few months later he lost his mother, he texted me and I wanted to run Chennai and console him. But I knew he saw me as a friend so I didn't express my feelings. 
 One year later he texted that he is getting married. It broke my heart. It took me time to accept it.. I congratulated him and made up my mind to move on in life. 

Later, Work from office started and I got busy in my life.. after a few months of his wedding, again he texted and we had a casual talk about work and life. He said he is having problems in his married life, things are not going right and they are planning to get divorce. I thought there was a usual husband wife fight so, I tried to explain to him. I was leaving the banglore in a few days so, he said he wanted to meet before I left. He flew from Chennai to Bangalore and we met, He told all the problems, I tried my best to give solutions but no use.
After that he started texting often, giving updates about his life, many times he said he made a big mistake in life to not understand my feelings that time. He is regretting his decision. 

I didn't want to give him hopes from my side because now it won't be any chance for us to be together. But he said he wants to live his life with me. He had feelings since starting but didn't express because it might affect my career. 

Now I don't know what to do.

Colleague

It's hard when u don't know whether to trust someone or not...

It's hard when u can't decide whether keep trying or move on...

U should stay cause love or should move on cause he doesn't ??

It's hard to understand when a person gave you only hurt,pain,worst traumas,mental issues and anxiety, disrespect and you still love him without any conditions.....ur heart want him only over and over again 

Is it normal??

Nd when u love so much to him nd he is also ready to get married bt still u confused because u really love him bt deep down u surely know he doesn't.....nd why he is ready to get marry???
So u have fear that what if he repeats the mistakes from past ???

Life

It's been three yrs and it still hurts..I met this guy on Tinder...we started talking onnwats app on regular basis for three plus months ..we got close and I was in a happy place..I wanted to meet him and he kept making reasons..I didn't take it seriously..then he started talking to my close friend in instagram..I didn't think of it as anything..time went on..he said he likes me more than anything..I was happy too..then one day suddenly he stopped talking..no pings or calls just formal replies to my pings..then my friend sent me a screenshot of their conversation..he asked her out on date..I confronted him so he sent the screenshot of our fight to my friend..I was already heartbroken..then the worst came.. while my friend sent word by word of what he shared with her I saw my name saved as "random tinder chick"I have never felt pain like that before..I mean how can someone lie each day for 8-10 months make me feel special and break me like this...it's ok if feelings change the least he could have done is not insult my feelings like this..I am not able to love anyone since this incident..how do I make this pain go away.. request to guys..if your playing with feeling of 2-3 girls at same time think about what it can do to them..

Cheating

I am confused I had a friend with whom I shared a very close bond but he had feelings for me but he never confessed though we were very good friends then I was at my lowest and I couldn't share that with him because I knew I would never understand that so I we had a fight and I ended things but I am missing him so much..... I am confused because though I want to talk with him again but I know I have to let go of the attachment issues for my growth plus I also don't know how will he react there's a lot of what ifs I am thinking but I am also missing him I don't know what to do anymore I am thinking about this all day

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