I've known this one guy in socmed and day by day i get to know him more, and I also start to feel comfortable around him. But one day, I've decided to search his name on Facebook and I have found out that he's already married and has a daughter. I was like, okay it's fine, we were just friend anyway. What makes me mad is that he actually has the gut to tell me he's single and still looking for a partner. He even asked for my friends, whether they are single or not, and if they are single he would give it a try. Like hell I would give my friends to him

Definately he is the guy not looking for love..And you get to know about him in sarkh stages..You hot saved..
Move on..You will find better persons to talk  here...

Omg he is such a loser. raise your standards sis this aint nothing to worry about 

Relationships

The guy I like isn't really talking to me today, I don't know maybe he is going through some stuff or he just doesn't feel like talking, we both like each other but i don't want to feel clingy while double texting, mhmm I hate that i over think so much 

Overthinking

How do you get over someone who leaves you on read and takes you for granted and leaves you hanging stating they're going through some stuff

Basically fighting with many on going thoughts right now, its all about a guy. I meet a guy recently because of my bestfriend, basically she is my online bestfriend and ofc she has irl friends too so there is this guy her boy bestfriend who she made me meet online only so we can be along and start a relationship but me and him is like we started getting along fall for each other too started relationship but it ended in 2-3 days. Its because he is like i cant be in relationship with you its not gonna work between us there is no us. I accepted we became close friends again but with benefits like we doing stuffs online only and now he and me both are addicted to each other we plan on meeting doing kiss and all those sinful stuffs but wont be in relationship. The fact he said me i am the first girl who does this to him i love him alot not as friends but more i am ready to see future with him too but he isnt ready. The fact he says he gonna take care of me, love me, cherish me and i am his and he is mine but its like he asked me if i am willing to give whole of myself to him or not i said yep all to him and again he asked me are you willing to be whole mine even when i am not whole yours? I still said yes because i said i love him alot i cant move back from him thats somwthing i can never imagine so yeah thats my vent. And now i am so obsessed that i am lacking in my studies more likely distraction tho i am trying my best to control but still i am, i dont know what i should do and all. 

Addiction

My partner is not responsive to me anymore through chat. His chats are cold. One-word only. Does it mean he does not want to be with me anymore?

Not feeling so well but I m strong and I will pass through it. Yesterday the love of my life for last 8 years brokeup with me. And u know sad part he don't have gut to say that on my face. Yesterday whole day he pampered me. We had lunch together,we spend quality time. It was all romantic  he loved me then when I step out to go to Home he informed me on call that day before yesterday he got engaged with other girl of his choice. He was looking to get married to her for last one month. He said I do not want to face u such a pitty man he is . Hurting part is we work in same office I have to see him daily I have to work with him daily. I can't leave job during pandemic as I m so broke financially. I stood for him in each difficult condition of his life . I helped him when a girl broke his hurt after having relationship for 4 years. What she did to him he did to me. And I don't knw why I deserve this. He was financially broke he was sitting at home without work I was there to support him he was sick I was there ,I helped him in his bad days. Itrust me I m so innocent and kind hearted gurl. I never did bad to anyone. Even he cheated me once still I gave him chance may be that was my biggest mistake. And he don't have any valid reason to reject me. He willingly marrying this girl of his choice although it is arranged. May be she is so rich and belong to powerful family. May be that is the only reason he want fame and settlement. It's okay although I have to face to him it's okay he don't deserve my kindness my time my love my single tear. Now onwards I m not gonna cry for him. Btw to remove my all anger and frustration I m gonna join karate probably from tomorrow. After that I will open my u tube channel. All love I gave to him all time I gave to him now I m gonna give that same love to me . Afterall I deserve all this . U knw after all this happened since yesterday i not wished anything bad for him may be bcoz I loved him truly n I can't see him in pain. May gid bless him . Let him live happily with her. May god bless that girl too she should not face what I m facing now. And guys plz if u can't give love in return of love plz don't commit anything to that person plz don't go in relationship that too for long years . 8 years is huge period. Someone gave u that time to u plz don't do this to any one. U knw what sadly while writing all this he called me to give me office related task. How the hell he has all the guts. Don't he feels ashamed of himself. May be god saved me from this man. I deserve something better. Any one who is reading this plz suggest me should I look for love once again or should I look for boy to marry so that I can settle my self or should I just adopt a child and share my love with that child. I m 30 although right now I m financially broke but soon I will recover my self from all debt may be by the end of this year my all suffering will end. Kitna kuch likh diya na kya karu koi hai hi nahi jisase kuch kah saku jiske kandhe or sar rakh ke ro saku and we all knows strangers r more supportive than people whom we knw. I m hoping some suggestions so that I can recover my self from this asap. I knw my worth. I knw he left me and it's his loss. One more thing don't tell me to ask help from my family bcoz my all family members hate me and they do not have strong reason it's just I stand for my self and I don't follow conservative decisions made by elders.bahut ziyada hi ramayan ho gaya h now I should stop my self.

Breakup

Hi, I have been in a dilemma for a few days now. So I've been talking to this person online for a little over a year now. Everything is great, we facetime, call, etc so I know it's not a catfish. But for the past few days, I've been reflecting on all the things he says. Once he can be very sweet and tells me he likes me, that I could be a great wife to him or even mother. We used to call daily and talk for hours and we have also been intimate (over the phone then). On the other hand, he will say things like, I miss this girl, she was so hot. Or he will tell me he went on dates with someone and it was awesome. What the f*** is his deal ??? We aren't in a relationship so I feel like I'm not allowed to get mad about it and I have never told him it bothers me. I haven't really been replying to him so if anyone can give me advice. (Sorry if the text is a little chaotic). And the dilemma is if I'm allowed to get mad about it or if I'm just stupid and I should move on cause he clearly doesn't give a sh*t about me. 



Long Distance Relationship

Well there's a guy i had a crush on and i still do. He's really good looking and he's a good human too but it's just that he's not my type. I feel like he knows that i have a crush on him as i have made that obvious by acting shy in front of him and i think he likes me too. We both have not taken any steps yet.... We just talk casually through texts everyday. As I overthink a lot, i was thinking what if he does something like tells me his feelings...... What will I do ???? I don't want to hurt him but i have already given him hints of me having a crush on him and now if i reject him he will be hurt 
And most of all I don't even know if i am ready to be in a relationship. Sometimes I think of ghosting him but again I don't want to hurt him as in the start i was one who has given him so much attention and now ghosting him would really not be a good option.
I don't know if i like him or not because there are Times when i want to be with him and again there are Times when it feels so weird

Crush

I've been dating this guy for more than a year now, and recently, we've decided to take things to the next level and make our relationship official. We're both deeply committed to our studies and focused on building our futures.  However, I'm feeling hesitant about introducing him to my family due to a past incident. Because, a while back, I made the mistake of sneaking him into the house for some private time, which unfortunately led to my father catching us. While my parents forgave me for my lapse in judgment, the incident understandably created tension and concerns about our relationship. On top of that, we're both south Asians living in Europe (in our early 20s). The culture and the mentality are different yes, but understandably, my parents grew with the old mentality back home, but still more open and adaptable. Despite the fact that nothing untoward occurred during that time together, the memory of the incident still lingers, and I worry it might influence my parents' perception of our relationship.

While we're excited about sharing the news of our relationship with our parents, we're also realistic about our goals. We understand the importance of prioritizing our education and career paths before considering marriage or living together. Our intention is simply to be together and support each other through this journey. How can I communicate this to my parents effectively, reassuring them that our relationship aligns with our long-term plans, without causing unnecessary concern or misunderstanding?

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