Kiya @kiya04
I’ve had a boyfriend for over a year now. We live and hour away but he tries to make it down here as often as possible. Basically I feel like we get distant every time we have sex. Like we’ll be fine that night and then he is off doing whatever for days. It really hurts me in the end. Makes me think I’m to easy.
shubham @chomsi
How old are you guys?.
Kiya @kiya04
19 and 23
shubham @chomsi
I’m sorry to tell you this but boys in this age usually looking for hook ups. I’d suggest Try not having sex & creating a meaning relationship wherebyou can enjoy eqch others company but you seem to be too young. 🤷🏻♂️ Enjoy dont get serious its doomed for an end.
avi rana @abimanrana
Well said…
Bruh
Kiya @kiya04
Sounds very reasonable. Thank you!
Do you spend time other than having sex ? If so how frequent is it ?
Kiya @kiya04
We do spend time other than sex but it’s not often. I told him that recently actually and feel like there should be plans made that involve no sex. We used to do that but we see where his priorities is now.
If he continues acting the same way you know what to do
Kiya @kiya04
Yes exactly! Tysm
Ibnu @ibnu
It seems you’re looking for a proper romantic relationship whereas he probably approaches you for his sexual needs. You should communicate with him and convey him what you want in the relationship. If it’s not favourable for you don’t stay in it.
Kiya @kiya04
I love this. I will chat with him about everything today. Thank you so much!
Ibnu @ibnu
Good luck. ♥️
