I’ve been with someone for 15 years and it was good at first and at times. He use to get violent but now it he thinks acting nice but hurting me in others way exert his power and control. I know I need to leave. I’m honestly just scared. I don’t if what. But I don’t know. Luckily I have a few friends that understand. But still so hard to let go anyone else feel this way? How did u leave? How are you now? Help.