Its so that 
Life between birth and death 
Is filled with uncertainties 
Hopes and dreams 
All good and bad 
Live in the moment 
That is the only truth known. 

Yeah! thats why we should never give up in any situation. Its just a part and parcel of life.

Other

I am new here! 

Now&Me Meets

These days i have lost interest in everything..i have lot of free time..so I used to read books or watch kdramas or tv whole day.but now i lost all interest in them..i don't even feel like scrolling through social media also.i don't have many friends..they are busy everytime i talk to them..due to lockdown i can't even go out..i don't know what to do..i feel like there is nothing to do in life anymore..what should i do?

Mood Disorder

I feel lonely. 🙃

Lonely

My grandmother (Nani) is bed ridden since years now. After my mom died I honestly have lost attachment to many things and people including her. I just care for me and my dad, rest all do not come in my priority list. Nani doesn't want to do things to get better and cries at the same time, it's irritating. I don't feel anything except for anger and frustration. I know I should not feel like this but I feel like I don't care about her at all. I am ok with this until the thought that she is my mom's mom hits me. I feel that small percentage of guilt but nothing's else. Is this wrong to feel this way? Can a person change to such an extent that I have changed since my m died, I don't understand what to feel.

Confusion

I’m sad. There’s this girl who I love, our 3 year anniversary was in November. Everything felt like it was so good in our relationship. And for 2 years it was so perfect. Some friends even said like a fairytale. She is a lot older then me, and had been married in the past. She had been acting off, almost like she was trying to find things to argue about. And we never used to really argue. But she had been nit picking at little things she’s never cared about before. Etc. I felt something was up so I had went through her phone. Only to see there was a text to her ex wife, “you should have let me rub you down.” It’s been 2 weeks since I saw that and I have just grown so much sadder. I was diagnosed with MDD and BPD and have been trying to manage it, with tips I received from tons of counseling. But god it’s just so hard now. She proposed to me a couple of days after and I said yes. I just hate this because I love her so much, and we have been talking about getting married for a while. And this would be my first time getting married, so why not with someone I’m absolutely in love with? But now I just can’t help but be sad. We talked about it since then and she said she was just joking and how it was a joke. But you don’t joke like that with your ex! You don’t, it’s practically a universal rule. And I told her I couldn’t trust her anymore, especially in talking with her. and she said “I know but ever since We got engaged I haven’t.” Like okay so you act like we weren’t together a whole 2 years before that. And we were friends before we even got together. So I’m just feeling incredibly betrayed right about now. And kicking myself why I even said yes. Even more so, because why did she wait till now to even propose??? Because she just didn’t want to lose me and this is her last Hail Mary? Am I just overreacting? I don’t even know at this point and it’s giving me a headache. My heart is just hurting wondering I deserved it. Because to me, it sounds like she cheated with her ex wife. And all of this just has me crying my eyes out tonight. 🤧😢

SECRETS OF THE UNIVERSE: 

Whatever beliefs you hold?

You will look for evidence that CONFIRMS those beliefs.

This is called “Confirmation Bias”

If you believe that the world is a dark place full of sad people?

The world WILL become a dark place full of sad people.

Your brain will literally INTERPRET everything happening around to mean that.

Affirmations

whenever guys talk to me in class approach me or try to talk I will be avoiding them , I know that I have anxiety and shy talking to them also it takes time for me to be myself but until then they will be friends with others and avoid and ignore and after that no talking will be there at all,but they think as arrogant and attitude and it hurts , and it's been years now still I don't have any friends ...

Anxiety

Hi I'm shalini i am currently struggling in figuring out my identity. I thought I was bisexual but every now and then I doubt I'm a lesbian. I am dating a girl who i really love fir the past 2 months but sometimes I feel like she doesn't value me. I really like spoilng her by giving her chocolates handwritten notes and telling her sweet things but she doesn't do the same for me i am not asking for it but I just feel like I also deserve to be treated better. She is good friends with my best friend and sometimes I get really bad thoughts like what if she likes her and not me and i just overthink alot any advice?

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