Its my First day here and i am glad
To know that such kind of site exist where you can actually pour your heart out.
I am currently having issues in moving on, recently got the news from my loved one that he cant marry me because of his family situation, his family wont allow due to social stigma. I have been with that guy for 5 years now, and it kills me everyday when i think that i won’t have him. Our love was literally like some fairy tale. The way he cared for me , the way he protected me and so many little things.
Its just so hard to let go of that kinda guy.
I love him so much but i just cant have my
Future with him. And it seems that he has already moved on because of his family, i mean ofcourse, when family says something serious, you gotta listen and
Do accordingly.
It hurts a lot. A million little things we used to do, i cant with anybody else. I just cannot imagine doing anything with anyone.
5 years of relationship ended SUDDENLY.
I know he loves me too but he gotta stick to his family which I respect. But i feel so jealous the way he is gonna make his wife feel. He is so kind and gentle and caring. I am not even able to think about my future.
How am i gonna tell my family that i cant marry anyone else, i just love him so much.
It’s like i am being unreasonable now because i just want him so bad and he is ready to move on.
I miss him.
Simran @st1199
Hi!
I am here for you. I haven’t been through this, but it seems such a perfect relationship to me which due to family issues came to an end.
It feels like we can’t have the same thing/vibe with another guy. And, it is true. What we have with one person be it friendship or love, can’t be the same with another one. It will always be different. Your case will too be different. I have read many stories online where they talk about their relationship that they also felt they couldn’t find someone else because they were so much in love with their last one. And at that time it’ll definitely feel like this but everything is a matter of time tbh. Being with someone for 5 years and it ends because of something you both wouldn’t want to end this way, hurts more than anything.
I would like to say, take ample amount of time to heal and understand what happened, happened for some reason and there is something else planned for you. This can’t be seen right now but in the future, everything will make sense. Wait for that time and in the mean time process your thoughts and talk to yourself and your friends. Sometimes crying your heart out makes things feel lighter. For me it does, maybe it will for you too.
If you feel you both can be friends. It’s a notion that exes can’t be friends, but nowadays they have started. Maybe you both will be in touch as friends if not romantically.
Come and talk to us here whenever you feel like and we’ll talk to you as much as possible! 💛🌟
I really appreciate your thoughts and i must say, m feeling a bit calmer because of you.
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
Simran @st1199
Glad to hear that.
I hope you feel better day by day. 🌼
Sneha Anand @sneha08
Hello, thank you so much for sharing something which is so personal to you. I know how it feels like when years long relationship turns out like this. It’s heartbreaking. But to make it works is a two persons affair, I really wished that he tried to make things work as you alone cant do it.
All I could say, that don’t blame yourself for you’re quite brave to love so deeply, give yourself sometime to heal, I know it will not be easy at first, time will heal everything.
Stay strong and keep sharing, we all are here to listen.
Lots of strength and love to you 🌈🌻🌼💙
Thanku Sneha 🤗❤️
Really appreciate 🙏🙏🙏
God bless you dear.
