It’s my ex’s birthday tomorrrow
I have been wishing her since
5 years and we used to celebrate together
Nd we haven’t talked after breakup
For about 3 months
Of course i miss her everyday
But i don’t want to be with her again
I was there with her every year
She was always excited for me to wish her
She may be or may be waiting for me to wish her
She has removed me from her snapchat
Should I add her and wish her ?
i don’t know about adding her, but maybe just text her a simple happy birthday’. Sorry if that’s not helpful!
Hi,
This question has come in your mind because you still have that soft corner for her.
Maybe she too has that
Because ultimately 5years are always greater than 3 months
So maybe she too might be expecting ur wishes
See bday is a day one shd feel happy n blessed n not disturbed by anything…
So friend
Calmly sit n think over it
As you know her personally n sufficiently for a long period
Just think what type of person she is
Will ur wishing her disturb or upset her
or will your not wishing her disturb her
Also if your stand is clear
That you dnt want reconcilation
Pls be very clear about it
Your wishing her shouldnot create any false hopes for her.
Because friend our heart is very fragile
Esplly for ppl we are close to
It breaks easily
So we need to be very careful
Pls think well
N decide.
Good luck to you…
May u find strength to move on
I dnt understand why love hurts so much…
May ur gf also have lots of strength
Take care
Also you can put urself in her place n get answer to ur question
Would you want her to wish u on ur bday…
Do u want to be in touch with her
May be not as couple but as friends?
Simran @st1199
Hi!
Two things can happen in this case.
1. You wish a simple “HBD” and after she replies “Thank You”, you seenzone and move ahead. You get the satisfaction that since you wished her every day for 5 years, let’s be a good person and wish her.
2. You hope that we talk more than “HBD” and “Thanks” and maybe things change even when you don’t want to be with her.
Think about what do you actually want and trying to do. If it’s the second one, my advice don’t go ahead rather leave and consider it as a part of your past life and move ahead in terms of everything.
