It’s like for the first time in a while I’ve made good friends. But most of the times it’s hard for me to connect to them. I Often feel like there humour doesn’t match mine. There understanding/ perception about life is almost similar to mine but i can’t relate to their problems. I have financial issues and nobody else realizes it.
Sometimes i do feel that i want to live incognito and be someone but other times they respect me and be so kind. I admire each one of them. But relatibility factor lacks sometimes. I Don’t understand why they are so high maintenance. Like friendships can be low maintenance and easy right but they cost me financial strains.
Thoughts anybody!?
Mannn @mannnn
Good friends are hard to find, and when one cannot understand you, like your problems and difficulties, they aren’t real friends! You’re maybe just a member of the group and not friend.
Try to talk to the one who introduced you to that group… Might be they are really good friends and understand the situation
Don’t get me wrong. They are nice people, helped me through my studies and stuff but sometimes it’s just weird.
But may be you are right
You don’t have to be a part of those expenditures you would have to worry about, since your friends are actually good, they’d understand you.
I know right. I’ve started to be vocal about my feelings and my short comings and to my surprise they are very supportive.
