It's just really sad that many of us can't share things and our thoughts with the people most close to us just because we fear that, that person won't have a proper thing to say or have a solution...... And we have to end up getting more confused about that situation and give comfort to that person when we are the one's who should be comforted

Happens a lot of times with me. At the root is the difference in perspective. While I am looking for a few comforting words, the other person is expressing fear.

May be we don't want to see them like that.....So, forgot about our things in mind at that time to comfort them and to atleast make them feel better

3am Thoughts

You rather have a smart enemy than a fool enemy.

Quotes

Honestly, I’m everywhere. I’m bipolar and my episodes are happening so frequently and much fast switches than the past- why my meds were working. I don’t think they are now and I have to talk to my doctor about it, lots of anxiety tho

Bipolar Disorder

I went to dandiya night  with my friend , we enjoyed  a lot there  click pictures and all but while exiting we saw a guy , exchange of glimpses happened and all and while we were waiting for my dad to pick us up from the place , that guy was still roaming around and at last he approached us asked my friend number but at that point of time I felt very insecure . I'm not jealous but insecure what to do 

Adulting

If it doesn't make me money, i don't wanna hear about it. 

Acquaintance

Such a boring day😕

Just read a thread of replies on a social medium of different people explaining how hard making (new) friends when you're an adult is. I thought it was just me, now I see other people also find it extremely difficult. What do you think, guys? I guess it's true. Very few people have the time AND the energy to start new friendships. 

We deserve a partner who executes all five love language and I'm lucky mine does. 

Boyfriend

can anyone say the answer?
my friend used to like a boy for a long time onwards. she hasn't expressed her feelings to him. and he was a family relative to her. she found the boy's contact and started chatting with him. it has been passed few years like that. she was very happy when the boy messaged her.  every time she use to be very excited when she talks or messaged to him. but every time they use to so quarrel because the boy used to say she is showing an attitude towards him. the time has passed like that. 
one day the boy asked my friend one question if his family asked him about the marriage proposals he would like to suggest my friend's name.
for that, she said that if my father is okay with that proposal she will accept the proposal. but that boy was asking the same question repeatedly so she said ok about it. after that, the days are gone they used to have the same conversation about attitude and all. one fine day while there chatting they having the same conversation that boy said to her that if we were like this it may be not work out between us. then my friend said to that boy that if you don't like to talk with me don't talk and I will also don't disturb you. It was the end of their conversation it havens been months. They haven't contacted me. I can see that she was suffering a lot inside. she used to say that she hadn't expressed her feelings to him but it was ended.
I don't know what to suggest to her. how to comfort her. she said that she want to move on but she suddenly thought about that boy and became sad. she was trying to but she can't.
so friends I want to know the answers to a few questions below can anyone help with these please:
1) I want to know what was the feeling of that boy toward my friend?

2) what was my friend's fault that she ended up like this?

3) what does she have to do now?

4) how to comfort her?

5) is her feelings toward that boy love or attraction?

6) can anyone say what my friend has to do now? 

she asked me if she need clarity about her feelings toward that boy.
I don't know how to figure out this problem.





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