It's been more than a year since we broke up, more than 5 months we haven't talked. I'm not sad or anything. I just miss the way it feels being in a relationship. Saying cheesy things to each other, doing stuff to make her happy, or feel special. That acceptance, validation comes with it. The feeling that someone is there for you always will protect at all cost, will not judge you, you can share anything and everything with them. It's quite beautiful.

Now that it's over, I'm again embarked on a quest of finding another beautiful soul, hopefully, this one will last forever given that I get what I'm looking for. 🙂🙂🙂

At least you have learned something from your past experience which can help you make the coming relationship better and successful as well:)

Relationships

I’m 21 and I moved to France from Nigeria a few months ago to study. I met a girl, a student of the school who has been so nice to me. We met each other on the school’s Facebook group and been close friends even before I got to France. We started to fall in love with each other and became so close. We almost started dating but just a few weeks ago, she sent a message saying she doesn’t wanna date anymore. She won’t even be close friends with me anymore. I’m really sad about this. She means the whole world to me. Asked her why she decided not to be with me anymore but she says it has nothing to do with me. I really think about her so much

Breakup

Confused

Broke up with my gal today. I like her and want a good and prosper relationship but i don't see her putting the efforts for a relationship for her its nothing I guess  she says she care but words mean nothing until actions prove them. 
I don't want it to end don't know wht to say to her. 
Any advices? 
Ps. She reacted to the break up very casually. 

Felling so low 
Basically can't get over a relationship which i thought was real.
It was real for both of us. But can say time doesn't want us to be together. 
Simply miss her presence. 

I met a girl on a juice shop we talked because of the language barrier between her and the juice shop bhaiya then I don’t know why I continued talking to her we shared number that time only and we went back and started talking. I got to know she was going to get married so I thought better not to talk then but somehow that night only we went out on a date kind of thing we talked and I liked her and she even complimented me and told me that she don’t want to get married. Then we came back their was a connection next day in night we went to the movie even she didn’t know which movie we were going still she came by telling lie to her fiancé and stayed at my room that night but nothing happened. We both were feeling the connection and the happy feeling but knew we can’t do anything because the next day his fiancé was coming back. The next day also we went out and then we were having dinner where I asked her who was I am to her. She just told me that I was the best 3 days of her life I made her feel like a queen and she won’t forget those 3 days. I didn’t even kissed her. She just told me to forget her and be happy. I took her back to my pg on the terrace for dinner I was not talking to her but she asked me to get the terrace empty and I did. We just stood their and hugged closely for 10 mins. Now she got married and is happy and I am over her but sometimes I remember what if I had done something differently.

Lonely

I have been feeling very low lately, me and my gf was gonna marry anytime soon in the coming months, we were waiting for approval of her father. It was a 4 years old relationship, we lived the best moments of our lives together, suddenly my gf who I trusted the most took the decision to marry someone else without even discussing with me.
No matter what I say she wouldn't understand me. She wouldn't believe anything I say. Its gonna be 2 months ever since she told me this and ever since not even for a minute I cant stop thinking about her.

Anxiety

This is question for girls .Please respond .... how do you forget about your love or ex just by telling the reason that my family won't accept you!!! So if you know about this shit from starting why do you bring questions about future, marriage and even babies....It really hurts when suddenly you text that it's over even when there is nothing mistake I have made never cheated ,never tried to run away from the relationship ,even introduced her to my family. it just breaks heart girls. don't play with anyone feelings .. cherry on the top,  today I got to know I have  High BP which was due to depression.

Depression

See I have a girl bestfriend, we used to talk chat very well and she had gone to US last year August. After going to US she's not replying to me but she'll be online. Whenever I ask her reason she used to tell assignments were the reason. She don't call me in weekends and i was like maybe this Friday evening she'll call and waiting every weekends. 
And i was eagerly waiting for her messages. She also tells me that you're my bestfriend.. you're the only person I'm in contact and no one from 10th, inter, btech are in contact.. 
Sometimes I get doubt that maybe she found another one 🥺.. or maybe she's in relationship or maybe she's avoiding. She sounded like she's genuine but I don't know 😔😔..
Currently I'm running from my doubts and hope it could never be true.... 

3am Thoughts

3 Months of break up and she has already got a new boyfriend, She broke up telling me she does not want to be in any relationship, and it is not because of me. But right now listening to stupid slow songs all i can do is cry, How can someone unlove so quickly, How can she move on , and why its fucking hurting so much?


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