it's been lonely this past month. i have two roommates who're dating but i am the only one who is single. and i can't find anyone, and infact im not sure if im ready for a new relationship. how i just wish i could find someone who gets it.

I get it. But I would also say that you are ENOUGH just by yourself xx

Go out,make new friends,learn new things, explore yourself. You dont need to date somebody just because you feel lonely.Date somebody when you are ready. 

You dont need somebody to help you not feel lonely. You will learn to feel whole on your own. It's easier said then done but its important that you do. :)

Other

I feel very isolated. I’m a 28 year old female and I’m facing a lot of difficulty finding a companion. Have faced a lot of rejection and disappointment in this area. Even my other relationships (family etc) seem to have hit a rough patch. 
 

Relationships

Honestly I am happy with my current status. I am doing good at studies and family stuff and I don't really need a boyfriend or someone I can love.
But you know when I see my friends or other couples on social media or in person, I just ask myself a question, "Am I missing something!?".
I don't know the answer to it. Talking about guys, I am friends with really good guys and if I ever think of dating I think I have a large choice but it all narrows down to if I date someone I won't be able to give my best on other things(studies and family)
I just don't really know. 

Guys Help!, so i'm 15 and i wanted to be in a relationship but every girl that i like and confess to reject me... My friends been telling me to get a girl but i'm like nah that's just a waste of time, i gotta focus on my dream for now. But deep inside i wanted to be in a relationship but i just cant get a girl and i don't wanna start liking and confessing to girls cause like i'm traumatised from everything that have happened to me, i'm a good, smart guy but for girls its like i'm just not good enough... What should i do? 

Anxiety

I don't know what's wrong with me but I'm single for like 3 years now
My freshmen year in college is about to end 
The girls I wanna date are already take up or our my seniors whom I have no idea how to approach them.
If things remained like this I guess I am gonna end up alone!

Lonely

I really want a relationship, but I don't want just anyone. I'm Native American, y'know, dark-skinned, long hair, strong bone structure. But my type in guys is what every other person called a basic boy or something like that. Blonde hair, blue, green, or hazel eyes, taller than me... But like, I wouldn't settle for just anyone. And I know that prioritizing relationships is not ideal, I can't help but want love. As I said, I won't just settle for anyone, but I'm really longing for a committed relationship. Even a girl would be fine (I'm bisexual) cos I've only ever been in one relationship with a girl. I'm still a virgin, never had my first kiss, pretty much still innocent... It's hard to find someone who will make me happy when I've been in love with the same guy for nearly 2 years now. I feel hopeless. 

Watching insta reels and seeing many people or teens talking about broken heart and stuff makes me realise that I don't even have an ex and I'm already in my 20s. Being single makes me realise will I stay single like this lol? Anyways, how people get into relationships. I can't even get out of bed in the morning. 

Stress

Why is everyone around me all of a sudden dating likeee don’t make me feel more single than I actually do. I’ve never been in an actual relationship..cause whenever it gets serious with someone I kind of back off maybe cause I feel vulnerable 
And nowadays I don’t think anybody really approaches me maybe because I’m intimidating or I’m introverted and I can’t find any guy i like in my college so it sucks. I’m happy being single but I do want to feel what it’s like being serious with someone. 

3am Thoughts

Do anyone else feel this ??
When you are single you wish to have a gf but then when some girl is approaching you and is interested in you. You back out for no solid reason just fear if this will workout or not?




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