its been 16 months my girlfriend left me for another guy
still cant move on
still lost
any advice?

Breakup

I like a girl in library but i can't make the first move... 
I adore her badly she looks cute and beautiful 
How should I go for it ??,

Girlfriend

I don't know if this would help but I've been trying everything lately. I've been in a 6 year long relationship and like any other person I made plans for our future and I introduced my partner to my family (like literally everyone lol) and everyone loved her. Everything was going fine, we decided to move to abroad for higher studies and better job. I came a year before her so that I could adjust to everything this country has to offer hoping that I could be there for her if I know all the formalities before, if she needs anything. Well, after she came to abroad she started dating another guy and I had no clue (ofcourse I couldn't doubt her). I was busy figuring out job for me and doing her assignments (along with mine). Anyway, I think what I'm trying to say is that I'm trying to get over her from a long time and I'm trying everything that I can, I feel fine when I'm doing that activity but when I come back home, It's the same shit again. Open to any thoughts..:) thanks for reading.

Hlo guys I don't know I should write or not but few times ago I had a relationship with one girl I love her so much.but I cheated her by mistake and she saw my screenshot of talk to other girls.whatever happened it happened because before this break up she told me already that you should move on because her family wasn't ready for our relationship.after that I talked to someone else to make myself busy because last year also lockdown happened but I didn't talk about any vulnerable conversation.but some reasons she came back after few months she saw my chats and she finally broke up with me I don't know why this happened but I really missed her a lot I want that girl to again comeback in my life.should I message her about my feelings it hard to struggle like this I have started smoking from last 15 months.i always say to myself don't worry you deserve someone better but I don't forget her memories,those days what I need to do should I say to her about my feelings or how can I move on please suggest.😟😢💔🙏

Here I am, alone.
Don't know whom to talk.
Just writing whatever's in my mind.
She broke up with me don't know how many times, LOL 😅 But, this time it seems to be the final one cause she hasn't texted since 2 months.
We used to argue based on her past & she kept on running behind him even if I said I didn't like him.
At one point when we had a fight, she blocked me & started following him & today the scenario is the same.
He lives 2kms from her & I'm 200kms away & still I believed her. But, what she did purely is a cheating as if she couldn't get out of her past relationship, she shouldn't have approached me at all. & Let finish with a magical ending, she had 4 past relationships & mine was the first & the last may be.
Now she hangsout with her so called "new friends" not even caring about me.
So I have blocked her from everywhere.
She also refused to hangout with me saying I don't feel cheating my family & does night just with her newly made friends online whom she barely knows since last 7 days.


Cheating

Hi, this is N and I am 20 years. 4 month ago my girlfriend was broke up with me just a rich guy.  I asked her what happened? Why did you left me? Did I anything wrong with you? She just replied you are very good person, I still love you and I have lots of feelings for you but we can't go together. 
She blame herself she said I am not good for, I am ****d girl society can't accept like me and blah.. blah.... Blah.... 
 I know she is just making excuses to go far from me.
I am depressed since few months. And sometimes I feel like I should do suicide but I control my self. The feeling of suicide is coming again and again time to time into my mind. I don't know how much longer I can hold myself.

Depression

I moved away from my ex-girlfriend because she didn't want to have a relationship with me anymore but she wanted us to keep in touch and my emotional stability began to be affected. She told me that I had ghosted her for not answering her a few calls and then sending her a text telling her that I had to walk away and heal. I feel very guilty now for my decision but she doesn't realize that we were no longer a couple and I don't know if I was right to get away like that. I felt like she was playing with my feelings even though we were not a couple anymore. I still have feelings for her and she was so chill and I was so overwhelmed. 

Help please! 

Hi, 
I am socially awkward, possessive, over thinker and what not. 
I was talking to this girl whom I met in fb. I have trust issues as well, so even a little change in her behaviour, I overthink it and make it worse. I had not been to dates as m very insecure the way I look, with big nose, acne scar all over my face. However, I summed up all the courage that I can with positive thought and went to meet her. When I met her, I was socially awkward, I barly spoke. She always says that m too boring, but I cant find words to speak. So I sat there dumb, it was horrible. She had brought her friend with her, so it made a little awkward as they did all the speaking with themselves. Atleast there was no silence. But I did not play my part. I departed with them with guilt and dissatisfaction. Though I am happy I actually gone there on a date after all these years. 
From that day, I feel she is ignoring me. It is not the same as before we met. Now we hardly talk. 
I liked her but not able to impress her. 
Well now m planning to ask her what she wanna do. If she wants to continue, which I dont think is the case, but I wish, m happy. 
I want to end these insecurities, low confidence and all and be able to act like a man, speak out my mind. 
Currently these words describes me : insecure about looks, low self esteem, possessive, over thinker, boring, ugly, depressed, anxious, socially awkward, numb, and what not.
I want to chage to: confident, happy, social, charming, good with talking, self loving, active, interesting, humorous, etc.
I willl love to talk about these things and how to change for better.

Anxiety

I treated her badly and now that she's gone, i miss her, so much. Every second of every day i wanna turn the clock around to the night we met and never fuck it up like i did. 

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