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BreakupThought

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Anonymous

It’s been 11 months to my break up. My ex is with someone else now. I often find it very hard to not overthink about the entire situation because in our case, I never got a closure. He just grew out of love and was never able to tell me what actually happened. I am working towards myself but sometimes I feel lonely and unheard. I am fighting the urge to check him and his gf up on Instagram because I know it’s only gonna hurt me. I hope I’m able to achieve that soon.

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Anonymous

Dude u will get over pretty soon. Jst move on nd don’t look back, don’t check upon him or his gf. Focus on ur self nd after some years show him wht he actually ignored.

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Anonymous

Thank you so much🤍

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NYTime buddy

@just_lonesome

Its okay… ill tell you one thing . If he really was in love with you he wouldn’t have done this . But find closure in the fact that you gave it your everything and you gave him the kind of love he might not experience ever again… it takes a lot of courage to pass through this one sided phase. You will pass through it… And for the times you feel lonely and unheard.journal it all,reply to others on this platform, dont hold a grudge against him.he was just not for you…

Soon therell be someone wholl be worth waiting for … be that person yourself . You now have to make up to yourself for the energy you’ve wasted , pay it all back to yourself…

And you know allow yourself to be sad , to cry… have bad days ,have lonely nights, it’ll all lead to a better tomorrow.
Do not look for closure , you probably won’t get it but you know we always feel that after we get our closure everythings gonna be fine, you’ll be at peace etc etc but it doesn’t work like that…it’ll just be worthless words…
I hope you take good care of yourself and dont you worry ,it’ll be rainbows and unicorns ahead…

@just_lonesome

From personal experience, dont check up .just tell urself " no i cant ,i won’t ,i should not". The type of hurt is just next level… it’ll be very very but as the days go by it’ll be easier …

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Anonymous

I feel so much better hearing you out. More power to you love✨💕

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Anonymous

Hey !!!

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