It’s almost bed time and today was decent, I haven’t been working much so staying at home with 2 kids and a 24 year old boyfriend (who is childish himself, barely helps with anything) it’s just really starting to take a toll on me. I’ve been wanting to look for a better job with more hours but I’ve been having mixed emotions about moving back to Kansas City lately (where I grew up) but moving back to Kansas City means leaving my family behind because my boyfriend wouldn’t want to come. Sometimes I question if that would be a bad thing or a good thing in the long run. I’ve wrote the pros and cons on a piece of paper & the bad just out weighs the good. People think just because they don’t cheat that’s what loyalty is all about, they fail to realize that’s what comes with being in a RELATIONSHIP. Loyalty is more then just that…
well said , ma’am
I hope you are doing good with other aspects of life and wish you all the happiness in the world.
Loyalty doesn’t depend only on not cheating but how loyal is he with you and how he stays with you as a person. There are many aspects we look into and should be looked into. I hope you get a clear decision as what to do which is good for YOU and your future.
My best wishes to your kids as well! :)
You can tell him about the way you feel and try to have time by yourself asking him to take care of the kids