It’s a weird feeling knowing that someone you used to be with is now in love with someone else. I knew they were dating but it kind of hit me when the word love was used. Made it seem all the more real and not just something casual anymore.
Yes. I know this feeling. I can relate to this on a very deep level. I was with this girl for 3 years and we broke up last year in June. She was with someone else by September itself. Earlier it was fine and I accepted it because I thought that yeah she has to move on but then after a while I got to know how she is in “love” with him. That really hit me hard. That shook me. I wish I could evade this feeling.
I think I agree, and it is easier to move on and feel comfort when you see the other person not having a meaningful relationship specially if one feels that earlier what we had was actually “love”
But when we see them moving on to someone completely from their heart and soul, it is a little shattering. I think one just has to learn to accept it, and this acceptance does not come easy. I think one has to know if we are totally and completely over them or not. only then will their actions not affect us, no matter what they be.
It’s something really hard to accept