It kills when he talks with other girl to closely infront of me .i want to kill that girl ,but that's the mistake i made so I have to be in patience . I gave him that  freedom to talk .

I honestly will say that you are a pretty observant, mature girl. I unintentionally hurted him because of my jealous.

oh god gurll
you are just like me..
but now i have adapted this..
my boys ‘flirts’ with another one and when i make a scene out of it he says it was meaningless flirt…
and now i have understood that just because you are dating doesn’t mean you have a control over his/her life too!
it’s okay try not reacting to such a small issue and don’t forbid him from talking to other girls
ik it pinches inside but just gulp all that jealousy:)


Anger Issues

I'm in too much pain, he was my first love and he'd been cheating on me now he's gone and he couldn't even do it face to face he did it over text, I was in love with him and I still am he made me feel like a whole new level of love when I was with him 

Breakup

How do i get over a celeb's death? I mean this might sound very lame, but i literally loved him whole heartedly. I still do and since two months all i can think about is him. 

Depression

I'm missing my boyfriend, actually I wanted to part away with him, at that time we both moved on with some one else, but the hurt fact is i was just a friend with the other guy with whom I tried to move on but my boyfriend had a physical relationship with other girl.
I know there is no point of sharing this but don't know why deep down I'm missing him. I know that too he is very happy with other girl he didn't even care if i cry infront of him .

I’ve been in a relationship with this amazing guy since 2016. In 2019 he cheated and kissed one of our mutual friends. It was the breaking point and I broke up with him. We stayed apart for almost an entire year but never stopped loving each other. In 2020 March we talked again and realised that we love each other way too much to let this go so soon. He tried a lot to make things better but there were too many issues going at the back of our heads. Some regarding my trust issues and some regarding the people we saw/talked to in that one year apart from each other. We tried to make it work but we failed again. Now he’s gone to US for his masters but he still wants to get back. I’m left with too many issues in my head. I’m afraid of Being treated in the wrong way, being cheated on again, my feelings being exploited again, my efforts going to waste again. I’m exhausted with living in this paranoia. I don’t know if I should give this another chance or just stay emotionally numb forever. I’m torn between my feelings and my defences for self-protection. What should I do?

Relationships

I was feel sad, actually terrible .I was in a relationship a year before that to only for 2months and one day he broke up with me but I waited for him to come back I was still in contact with him,but one day he saide he is in relationship with other person.it's been more than a year now I still can't get over him, whenever I see him that girl I feel terrible like someone is stabbing me continuously All this is affecting my studies, I am starting to doubt my worth,will I ever be enough to someone,can I love someone aagain? What if they cheat on me?,all these emotions are killing me

I had a few relations and few flings..then i had this friend of mine whom i really trusted alot n shared things for morr than a decade.He knew about everything n he never judged me through these years. I would just open up my heart to him. N then v fell in love( well for me it was love..i dont know about him anymore) . We became intimate. N then all of a sudden things went wrong between us. And everytime he used to bring up my past broken relationships. He said this not once but many times that iv slept with so many guys that i might have given him STD. Iv been in mental trauma for more than a year listening to such things over n over again. Wen i refused to have sex or send nudes he used to yell at me saying i had no problem sleeping with other guys n why m i refusing to sleep with him. I need help. How could he do this to me?? I never lied to him. He made his own decisions. How can he blame me for everything. N now he has broken up with me saying m not good enuf for him. Really?? 

My boyfriend’s gone back home for the holidays while I’m still here at uni- it feels as though I’m the only one putting in efforts to maintain what we have :(
I get that a relationship doesn’t have to be 50-50 all the time and sometimes one person has to put some more effort in; but it feels like I’m the only one putting in effort these days?

I’ve been having dreams of him getting back with his ex which makes my intrusive thoughts worse.

I’m thinking of not texting him or calling him until he does so first? But at the same time I’m so scared of being toxic to him..

Should I bring this up to him? That I feel like he should be putting in more effort?? Or should I tell him that I’ve been having dreams about him and his ex??

He does check up on me on text though but I’m always the one calling him and it makes me feel like I’m annoying him even though he tells me I’m not.

Does anyone have any advice??


Anxiety

Heyy everyone 
Want help from you all for a killing confusion.
I met a guy on dating app and we vibed very well I was also attracted towards him and I felt very happy with what I was felling but due to my overthinking I got scared that what if the guy leaves as he was planning for further studies away and to protect myself I pulled away but later I realised that it was a wrong thing to do and I apologised but I did not got the same energy from him and I decided to let go but later he reached out and asked to meet and we met and decided to start over but post that meeting he was completely indifferent he said he us busy but I couldn’t sense a change in energy I even asked if he don’t fell the connect anymore but he said no but it was only me putting efforts whereas earlier he was so much into me the moment I stopped texting he didn’t reached out, while my mind says to let it go he may not be interested anymore but I really like him and I want to at least have a closure I so want to reach out and ask but I’ve deleted his number and also unfollowed him on insta to control myself but this question of why he changed did I hurt him really kills me and I am not able let him go, I want to atleast try again, what should I do should I just listen to my heart and forgive about self respect since this guilt is killing me what if I would have never pulled away what if this could have turned into something great!!!
Please help me with this dilemma 

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