It kills when he talks with other girl to closely infront of me .i want to kill that girl ,but that's the mistake i made so I have to be in patience . I gave him that  freedom to talk .

I honestly will say that you are a pretty observant, mature girl. I unintentionally hurted him because of my jealous.

oh god gurll
you are just like me..
but now i have adapted this..
my boys ‘flirts’ with another one and when i make a scene out of it he says it was meaningless flirt…
and now i have understood that just because you are dating doesn’t mean you have a control over his/her life too!
it’s okay try not reacting to such a small issue and don’t forbid him from talking to other girls
ik it pinches inside but just gulp all that jealousy:)


Anger Issues

My sem just got over and I am in my holidays.so much happened in just 2months, my friends whom I thought to be genuine and good turned out to be bitiching about me.and my boyfriend who was very loving and took care of me really nice started to lose interest in me because I couldn't prioritise between bestfriend and boyfriend.for me it took a lot of courage to get into relationship and I really love him now so does he but he is hurt, I get it. He became really bad so he asked let's take no contact one year Break so that we can focus on ourselves and we will return and if ur still waiting for me then and if I still love u we will get back and make it work. So now no friends no relationship I need to work on myself and stand strong in front of him.but I really miss him. How do I not be in contact with him for a year when I see him everyday life how do I do it.how do I work on myself.will I be able to do it.

Adulting

I loved a guy for 4 years and he was my best friend. It was all one sided. But he always treated me like I am his gf. He would constantly make up if I was angry. He would listen to me and ask me questions. He was shy. He never said no to PDA. I would hold his hand, touch his face, give him random doses of physical affection, remove any bits from his face, touch his chest, hold his face with both my hands, apply makeup on his cheeks, walk around with my hand through his arm, pulls his cheek, stare into his eyes while making doe eyes. He never said no to anything. Like ever. He showed annoyance when I talked about other guys. He would carry my bag and not say a word because I guess it was uncomfortable for Me. He moved to Australia this year and he loves it there. He is planning in settling there too. 
But how could he not feel anything for me? Like ever? 



3am Thoughts

I am so splenetic, i didn't know. I love him but i said such things to him that even those words stinging me. I never imagined that I would ever say such things to him. We were in long distance relationship. He disabled his every social media accounts after that. Idk I don't have the guts to sms him. I emailed him but he didn't reply. Idk what should I do. I am regretting a lot now... But he used to say such mean things and abused me & my family sometimes. I tolerated for few but when he started doing that often, i stopped talking to him. But then he said that he would never do that again but he did that again. & This time I insulted in such a way that even I feel suicidal. No, I never used bad words for him but I said mean and rude things. I was confused whether he really love me or not sometime bcoz he sometime makes me feel unwanted and insecure. But I love him that doesn't mean i'd tolerate him treating like shit and let it go. I just want to talk to him even if it is last time. just want to clear things. idk how can i cajole him... 

Long Distance Relationship

Hey unknowns , so here is a thing , 
There is this guy , who is my classmate and initially we were great friends like we used to talk a lot and i was expecting that eventually we might end up becoming besties ✌🏻
But over past 1 month all of a sudden he has reduced talking by 70% with me , it's like whenever we talk it's me who initiates all the conversations and i am the one who puts efforts , who reaches out to him, checks on him ,but not even a single percent of reciprocation of efforts I'm receiving from his end . Earlier i thought may be this is because he is focused on studies but even after exams this behaviorial change persists .
I tried stopping myself from talking to him; acting cold towards him and avoiding him like he does , but turns out  it isn't even affecting him at all maybe & for the sake of old times and my undulated attachment with him, i myself called and confronted him ,but he clearly said that " he wasn't acting cold with me and everything is normal " ...

Though from my perspective things are quite twisted ... moreover i have a slight doubt that maybe i have feelings for him too... am i doing anything wrong here ?

Friends

This guy I'm dating currently I've dated like 5-6 times in the past and it has almost always ended in an ugly manner but I thought this time will be different because why not but turns out it's not as different. He hasn't figured himself out and isn't happy w life and I don't know if he will be able to achieve either of those while being in a relationship. I love him but I'm extremely scared about our future mostly because I've started thinking we don't have any. Maybe it's the past times we've dated that still haunts me but idk. He says dumb shit sometimes and it makes me upset but he doesn't even care anymore, like he's given up. I'm really scared about us but idk how to bring up the topic because he already has way too many issues to be worried about a new one. I'm so scared. 

Relationships

I'm in my first relationship. He's very sweet n cute. It's been 1.5 months and we got physical. But i said no to s** we are just making out but everytime we meet we move atleast 1 step ahead. Everytime I tell him to stop and take this relationship slow, he agrees but start pouting then I agree somehow and now it feels like he's manipulating me. Today i said no to him becoz of some reason, firstly he was upset and i told him I didn't like this behaviour of him n i wasn't talking to him ... he was trying to calm me down and started crying. He said i make him feel like creap, womanizer etc. I said to him no it's not like that, I'm not comfortable rn. And then we moved one more step ahead but I'm feeling we are moving forward so fast,... I'm also feeling like he's trying to manipulate me i don't know for sure but it's feeling like that.

my partner is so loving & caring ...he take care of me a lot even though v r in long distance relationship...he cares for me,he love's me about what i'm...but some of my frz say's i should change myself for him..i should apply make-up and  to be mature ..he say's he loves me d way i'm ...i don't need to change myself for smone..he say's i'm immature but as d time wl pss i vl be mature enough to understand....he love's me a lot ..but now what should i do ...shall i follow my frz advice or be who i'm...

Love

Feeling sad i knew this day would come I knew that person will easily kick me out from his life. I knew he doesn't care. I knew all he cared was about looks. I knew I was his last option yet I gave him much more than he deserved hoping that one day he'll understand but all my thinking was right. He left me without even saying goodbye. I missing him badly but I will not beg him to stay. It's hurting a lot knowing the fact evey thing I thought was correct. I am not going to get close to anyone. He took away all my peace and happiness but I promise myself I know it'll take time but I'll heal. But what about now it's hurting me a lot I can feel my heart breaking all I can feel is pain and sadness. It feels so wrong that I gave him so much to get nothing in return all I expected was friendship but I guess i don't even deserve that. 

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