it is so difficult to accept that about your family that they can be backwards in their thinking or like they can be wrong or still has some old school ideas even when you act like you are so modern. my parents still prefer “son” and boy , and they don’t say it directly but in small small things it is pretty clear that they choose my brother and not me. they dont see us as equals.
So relatable… I agree there isn’t equality even now…
I feel very bad for everyone who feels like this. Be successful and make them proud of who YOU are. Don’t let this get in your way to success!