It is really frustrating for me that I care so much about people perception of me and I don't want to be that way but doing the opposite is really difficult. I don't know how to stop being a people pleaser. 

I feel like if I act like me in front of them then i will anyhow hurt their feelings which I totally don't want so I just act nice like really nice to the point that in some cases it hurts me.

I totally feel you. You seek validation. And I think that it's coming from inside. That may be you feel like you're not enough. And maybe you're very self conscious. And if that's the case then self love is the key. 

Like if we are in a group of friends and I say something some of them have listened to what I'm saying but don't react or reply anything so I just keep quiet for which they think that I don't talk much.

Are you, by any chance, highly conscious of yourself? Like the way you look or talk or behave. 

Anxiety

Comparison destroys the personality however it elevates it too. 

Life

why there is nobody appreciate me yeah i know im ugly and stupid but i never asked to born this way if i can choose i will definetly never choose to be like this and i always trying to be nice to everyone cuz ik thats the one thing i can afford.

Depression

Hi all! I am having hard times accepting compliments. Sometimes the people who had said those nice words, take it back and say harsh words. I think it is because people assume that I am a 'mentally normal and healthy' person at first, because I act like one. But when I become close with them, I start to open up about my bad sides, and people are like 'oh, so this is your true nature, I did not sign up to be friends with someone like you.' I felt like I betrayed them. Now, I do not want to get involved with people. It has been quite a time since I am isolating myself. This stage of thinking made me doubt about my worth and question am I actually a good person? What if I am a toxic person? If so, how to heal my self? I can not afford therapy. So is there any advices, tips, recommendations you can give me? Thanks!

Mental Health

Sometimes i feel my opinions doesnt matter at all. I stay around some toxic people and i feel no matter how much i tell to them this is wrong this not correct change ur mindset its like wasting energy. Because of this reason i have stopping expressing myself. PLUS This People have a very Good image in the outer world but are worst at home. So even if i go out and tell to other people they wont believe this is right. They are also on there side. What should i do i cant find anyone to understand me.

Confusion

Listen your guts feeling.dont try to be someone or copy someone just don't listen them ..

3am Thoughts

Ordinary created history once they started to accept the reality with exceptions. 
Just accept urself for being who u r don't be harsh on urself remember u can't be perfect u can only try to be perfect...in order to improve ,upgrade urself with each passing day.Just never try to loose urself for others cause u r beautiful and precious like every other thing which God has created.
We all r blessed to be different and unique our flaws makes us even more beautiful,it adds meaning to ur life. Your biggest battle is with urself to be better than yesterday and to become even more better in the upcoming days.
 We just need to start complimenting us on a regular basis(seriously we need to normalise self praise) to boost our confidence in order to make others to believe in u as well , and for that to happen u need to believe in urself the most & I don't think so others matter much tho atleast not more than you. 
Just remember that you are precious and no one can ever replace u in ur life so stop trying to be like someone else cause being 'u' is something which suits you the most. 

Affirmations

struggling to change everything from the inside out. need help

Overthinking

In this world you are not meant to be like others or copy others... you are meant to be yourself.
Your unique way . Rare self. That's make you different from others . And that's the moment people will looked upon. 

Just reminder none in the world is perect.... this is a world of imperfect ones . 

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