Rashmita @seriously
It is really frustrating for me that I care so much about people perception of me and I donβt want to be that way but doing the opposite is really difficult. I donβt know how to stop being a people pleaser.
Are you, by any chance, highly conscious of yourself? Like the way you look or talk or behave.
Rashmita @seriously
I feel like if I act like me in front of them then i will anyhow hurt their feelings which I totally donβt want so I just act nice like really nice to the point that in some cases it hurts me.
I totally feel you. You seek validation. And I think that itβs coming from inside. That may be you feel like youβre not enough. And maybe youβre very self conscious. And if thatβs the case then self love is the key.