It has been more than 3 years now that i have been friends with my friends
But i still feel that there is a connection gap between us
I still feel that we don’t trust each other to the fullest
They hesitate a lot in saying what they feel
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Why u have to hesitate to ur friends? Be open to them and if they don’t care you then don’t be with them it’s simple
It really not me who hesitates, i think the hesitation is from their side
I am always upfront about what i feel
And expect the same from them
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Stop expecting from anyone then u will be happy and peaceful
Hey @ditto, If you feel like they are hesitating and if you could predict slightly then ask to them…is it will work this way to them…Try and give them a chance rather to leave your friends…Try to make them comfortable more around you!
How do i do that
I try my best to be my best version with them
I say anything and everything that comes to my mind around them
Do you think that is too much
Should i limit what i say to them
... @completemess
Minus the last line and exactly. Tho we express too much.
I suggest that you to be a little bit more patient because it’s way harder to lose friendships after this long than having doubts in friendship. I’m speaking from experience and it’s been a year since I lost the relations to stupid doubts.
But one thing is for sure, if you’re not feeling welcomed then don’t think twice to walk away from them.
Yeah definitely i am not leaving them
They are nicest friends that i have ever had
But sometimes i do not feel comfortable
