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Is there any way to get out of this. The thing is i have been in relationship and from 4 months it is a long distance. Evrything was sorted ,we used to fight but at the end sort out everything. But from last month nothing is going well. I got furious on him because of his one female friend that i thought he might be flirting with. But he always said she is just a friend. But today i confront him and he said he has various female friends and he will hangout with them and obviously talkt o them. If you have problem in this i cant do anything. I told him you should set boundaries and make them clear that you are in relationship but he said if they are not asking then why should i scream about this. In two days we had planned a date. Now he is saying he seriously want to meet but dont want me to cry afterwards or blame if something happens that why should i met you. I am confused now what should i do whenever i talk about moving on or breakup he said nothing and told me to stop thinking about such things. Neither he is accepting nor he is declining. I want him to pur efforts but he says i am trying and i am very much exhausted because of my job. So i dont have time for all these things. He doesn’t make special time for me or now also stopped sharing about his life. What should i do?

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@sujal19
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Might dm me I’ll help you out!

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Anonymous
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I did

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Anonymous
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He don’t want to lose you neither he want to take responsibility of the relationship thats why he is not open about your relationship with others he want side kicks too according to me i have experienced alot so my gutt feeling is telling me this only

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Anonymous
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But i confronted him for other relations or anything he said i just meet them not even regularly. Whts the big deal in it

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Anonymous
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But he also told that he don’t want to be open about his relationship its red flag it’s not like having friendship with girls r okay but a group is called friends and meeting only one specific individual a girl is called a date if he is meeting in groups like both guys and girls then it’s fine . And + if someone is going out of boundaries in a relationship like flirting etc . Even if it’s from other side he should stop it if he is not then he enjoys the attention from the girl basic human nature l.

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Anonymous
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His best friend knows about me , he is telling one of his friend today.

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Anonymous
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Then stay on his side and wait till u have answers of everything because u r basically on both sides of the path god bless you

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Anonymous
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Its red flag he not telling about your relationship. Maybe he is keeping you as spare tire.

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Anonymous
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Yeah i also think so , i told him to never talk to me again

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