Is there any filipino here ? i cant express my feelings through english, im bad at it.
btw, may girlfriend po ako. nung umpisa masaya nmn pinagsamahan namin, umabot pa nga kami ng 4 years. Sa loob ng mga taon na yun, minsan nkagawa ako ng mga bagay na di nya ginusto at gnun din sya, at para sa akin normal lng yun. Kasi wala namang perpekto sa isang relasyon. Pero ang di ko maintindihan, pag mag aaway kami lage nyang sinasambit ang mga nagawa ko dati eh napatawad na nga nya ako, na settle na namin ang problemang yun, para sa sa aking di na relevant yun, dapat naka tuon lng sya sa problema namin ngayun kung bakit kami nag aaway. Pero wala eh, kahit mga kaibigan ko lng, pinapamukha na agad sa akin na nililigawan ko sila kahit wala namang katotohanan mga bintang nya.
ipagpatuloy ko pa ba tong relasyon natu? feeling ko ang toxic na eh.
She doesn’t want to lost you. Keep that girl☺️ I’ve been there, and now, for the 5yrs that i set her free, I’m still longing for her, and wanted her to cambak☹️
If you’re both in love with each other, you both need to endure things, be understandable and have an open communication. She may have that kind of attitude but u need to talk to her about it and make her feel loved and that u guys need to trust each other since u decided to enter that kind of relationship. Talk to her more often about things 🙂
If you feel that it is toxic, fix it and talk to your girl. You’ve spent 4 years together, don’t just end it by simply saying that it is toxic. Girls may be complicated sometimes and thats why they need a person that will help them settle their feelings and emotions. You love her, right? Fight for the both of you:))