Secret diamond @25tanya25
Is that possible that my mom curse me every time when we fight for silly reasons!?
I love her a lot, i share everything with her still when she get mad she abuse like hell and i try to stay calm but then she curse me for my future lifeβ¦
Is that normal?
Keith @downandout
Well depends, most people hurl curses to vent out fustration just because they canβt physically hit the other person.
Secret diamond @25tanya25
But for a mother is that normal?
Keith @downandout
Yes even for a mother not father, itβs just that we are so used to knowing only our friend abuses for fun that we think that parents use it as a slang but the truth is they love you and Iβm sure youβll agree with me that they do and they donβt show you otherwise correct?
Depends on what she says⦠wanna share?
Itβs one of the Toxic parenting traits which they inherited from their parents, Most of the time talking to them also donβt work. But keep your calm β¦ They donβt mean it most of the timeβ¦ & later curse themselves 2X .
So, Matter of time. Keep giving them & yourself gap may be go on vacation now & then.
It seems like your mother is affecting your mental health. I think you should talk it out with her, when sheβs not βmad at youβ, because the more you wait, the worse it gets. You should explain it to her that you feel upset when she yells at you and abuses you. You can do it, you are strong. We are here for you.
Secret diamond @25tanya25
Thank you sooo muchβ¦ its been just 5mins in this platform and i feel like m having soo many well wishers π€
I am going through a lot!
Am glad that i have this platform to share my emotions
Nope itβs not.
Do u have any brother or sister,bcoz my mom behave same like this with me,and totally different with my brother,and that day she was drunk and she literally told me that her priority is my brother not me,and thats why she always abuse me
Secret diamond @25tanya25
I can feel ur pain⦠i am going through same
Omgβ¦my mother does.that toooβ¦it makes me so angryy
Aditi @adu
my mom does the same but you know just let it go and try to talk to her explain her whatever you fell
Secret diamond @25tanya25
I tried to talk to her, but she donβt want to listen