Is talking back to your parents wrong? Even just for fighting for your rights?
B @laviii
No it’s not wrong, but sometimes we say too much, then regret for misbehaving later
Yeah i’ve just felt that😔 Feels like i shouldn’t fight back anymore and always be the one who’s mistaken or wrong even though i’ve never done something…
B @laviii
As we grow up our parents start to understand us, give them time too, they’ll try to change for their kid in a best way possible
Don’t worry okay?
I really wish they changed man, i cant hold this for long
B @laviii
Yes they surely will, give them time too, they are your parents
If you can’t explain your rights to parents in that case you are wrong
But if your parents are not educated nd don’t have potential to understand that thing
Then that’s correct !!
Sometimes it happens
I just fought for my right cause they always make me look the one who’s wrong or the bad guy
Talking back rudely is bad. No matter what is the situation. You may things you didnt mean it because ofc you love them.
Its really important to air your views a way they can understand. Because parents always think they no better because they have been making decisions for you. But a change can be hard for them to digest. So just make sure you tell them why you think you need whatever you do. Rest shall work out on its own.
Reasoning and tone is damn important.
I am a rebelious elder kid in the house. I know. I am not a kid anymore tho. Haha
They know better**
But it’s just they get mad at me for no Reason… I don’t even do something bad😢
Are you sure? I mean do you think you dont do anything bad or its really nothing and they lash out at you anyway?
They just lash out on me… I just ask them one about how’s the meeting at my school and they didn’t respond and after a few mins they responded at a mad tone and my Grade is Fine there’s 2 85 and the others is 90+ but they just got mad like there’s something wrong with me
:( I am sorry to hear that. Maybe they just expect more. You can tell them what went wrong in those subjects and just say you can do better. I am sure they will understand.
I’ll tell them that but i’m already doing my very best but my best doesn’t seem to be enough for them
Its not like that kiddo. Sometimes parents cant tell you how important it is do be consistent in life hence they become cold and distant. I am not saying they are right but I would always say they love you no matter what. You just need to understand that and try to ask them what they want from you. Donot engage in fights. Its just a mess
Thanks for your advice… I’ll do that
Thank you for listening. I hope it works out. I have difficult parents as well. But thats life and they are family and its okay. You dont have to tolerate their coldness. You can always talk about it and you both can work on it together.
April Knight @april121
no its not u have rights to n u need to protect ur rights no matter what
