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@flawless

Is over thinking is a big threat to our actual personality and a hurdle between u and your goals? Like I m an over thinker and the pre results assumpted by my mind due to overthinking stops taking any steps required in everything as like it can be my carrier oriented thing or any type of relationshipโ€ฆ I canโ€™t even express these things due to the fear of being judged by my family and friends and having a great fear of loosing people who I might not really want to looseโ€ฆI think many a times before even messaging to anyone just because a fear of being judged and with the pre determined resultsโ€ฆ

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Simran @st1199

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Hey!
Yes, to an extent it can. However, if you say this to yourself after overthinking that - Everything that I just thought is my overthinking, and letโ€™s not make decisions based on that, youโ€™ll be in a better position.

Overthinking canโ€™t be get rid of, but you surely can make your mind accept what you want it to accept. We think the mind controls us and it does sometimes but majorly itโ€™s we who can control and make it work our way. ๐Ÿ’›๐ŸŒผ

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Hey hi I do overthink at times and I could relate with most of it which you have mentioned but then I feel does it worth itโ€ฆ I just need go to follow my heart and do what I feel like rather than just thinking about itโ€ฆ

The result or consequences abt it could be anything but following what your heart gives you a whole different vibe and satisfaction as well.

Ppl judge you on many things but itโ€™s okay to be yourself every individual is unique and different in there own way !!

Stop worrying abt ppl just do what you want and follow your heartโ€ฆ

Stay calm ๐ŸŒผ

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@flawless
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Following your heart in ever situation is the best way but getting the same results which were already pre assumpted while overthinking and results in a negative way makes u more worried and effects in your future decisionsโ€ฆcanโ€™t get rid of all these things

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@anonymous1303
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I do understand your concern but following your heart can gradually but in the confidence in most of u to avoid such thoughts and donโ€™t let the negative vibe or thoughts sit in your head just bcoz of overthinkingโ€ฆ

I do understand itโ€™s not easy the way i m saying it but yes it do work in long run !

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