Is it weird if i text my old best friend happy birthday after not talking for 2 month?
No its not weird
But we havenβt talked in month and kind of ended it on a weird noteβ¦
Thatβs alrightβ¦ This is the chance to break the iceβ¦ If the silence continues then the frndship will be lost forever
Itβs always like this i reach out and the next day we ignore each other againβ¦ But I also donβt want to be mean and not concratulateβ¦
But I also donβt want to lose him foreverβ¦
If u value ur frnd then you should⦠Atleast a good silence is better than bitter silence.
Trueβ¦ But I also donβt want to look desperateβ¦ Sorry Iβm making this prolly more complicated then it isβ¦
In this case you should wish him. Loosing frnds is the worst to happen in life⦠Trust me on this
Thatβs alrightβ¦ U wanna talk on this?
Like we βbroke upβ in the end of June and since them i always texted him some days and we talked like we always did and it was so much fun and yeah but then the next day it was back to normal and we didnβt talk anymoreβ¦
If things were good then why did things get sour
He got a girlfriend and she didnβt like us talking or being friendsβ¦
Oh ok now i get it⦠Look, he is ur frnd, so just text him happy birthday⦠Its not a sin to wish a frnd⦠If he values ur wish then he will manage some how and reply back with out his gf getting to know about it
Yeahβ¦
He he you forgot to tap to switchπ€¦ββοΈ
Yeah the good thing is he will always text me back when i text him cause he will always be there for meβ¦ And i know Iβm prolly wrong for this but I want him to text me for one timeβ¦
Yeahβ¦ Itβs a bit annoying to always tap switchβ¦ The older version was like u only had to do it once so i forgot itβ¦
He he I totally understand that
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Now.u have to msg him as its his birthday⦠I dont think hell msg you as he will be under the pump thinking how his girlfrnd would react. I hope he.does.msg you.
Oh his birthday is in like 3 weeks
Lol i thought it was todayβ¦
Nope just overthinking earlyβ¦
It happens. Abhi ke liye relax π
Sorry donβt understand Hindi (i thinkβ¦)
Ah okβ¦ I meant for now relax!! U still hve 3 weeks timeβ¦
Yeahβ¦
May I know which country ur from?
UK u?
Thatβs goodβ¦ I am from Indiaβ¦
Nice
UK is my favourite country!!! Stayed there for 3 yrs
Cool!! I like Indian foodβ¦ But never been there sadlyβ¦
Ah food is great here!!! U gotta visit India for itβ¦
Definitely!!
Ur interacting with other folks on the situation u hve right now and I guess I am disturbing u with India, UK stuffβ¦
Nah itβs ok itβs getting my mind a bit off thisβ¦
Ah thats goodβ¦
Yupβ¦
So ru studying or working?
Studying
Cool!!! What ru in to?
I like readingβ¦
Nice you should itβs really fun
Ya, have ordered few books⦠Will get started ASAP.
Good!! Which books?
Power of subconscious mind, Ikigai, sacred nectar etc
Ohβ¦ Havenβt heard of themβ¦
He he may be ur on to very high level of readingπ¬
Nah. There are a lot of books so itβs plausible that i never heard of them Iβm not all knowing lol
Ya, trueβ¦
Good nightπ
Good night :)
Totally not. Itβs sweet. Pls text
But what?! If i doβ¦ Just happy birthday seems to cold but I also donβt want to text a full paragraphβ¦
Just text happy birthday. Itβs enough. Ur just wishing na
Yeah but isnβt that a bit coldβ¦
Itβs better than writing whole paragraph. And itβs better than not wishing at all.
Trueβ¦
Yes it is
Yeah i thought so too but I also donβt want to be mean and donβtβ¦
Chris @boredaf123
Wishing a simple happy bday is okay. But things get weird when you try to bring back what you both had once.
Yeahβ¦ But I really want to go back to what we hadβ¦
Chris @boredaf123
I would advise against that. Itβs gonna complicate stuff for you and him
Yeahβ¦