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Anonymous

Is it weird if i text my old best friend happy birthday after not talking for 2 month?

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Anonymous
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No its not weird

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Anonymous
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But we haven’t talked in month and kind of ended it on a weird note…

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Anonymous
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That’s alright… This is the chance to break the ice… If the silence continues then the frndship will be lost forever

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Anonymous
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It’s always like this i reach out and the next day we ignore each other again… But I also don’t want to be mean and not concratulate…

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Anonymous
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But I also don’t want to lose him forever…

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Anonymous
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If u value ur frnd then you should… Atleast a good silence is better than bitter silence.

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Anonymous
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True… But I also don’t want to look desperate… Sorry I’m making this prolly more complicated then it is…

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Anonymous
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In this case you should wish him. Loosing frnds is the worst to happen in life… Trust me on this

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That’s alright… U wanna talk on this?

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Anonymous
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Like we β€œbroke up” in the end of June and since them i always texted him some days and we talked like we always did and it was so much fun and yeah but then the next day it was back to normal and we didn’t talk anymore…

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Anonymous
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If things were good then why did things get sour

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Anonymous
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He got a girlfriend and she didn’t like us talking or being friends…

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Oh ok now i get it… Look, he is ur frnd, so just text him happy birthday… Its not a sin to wish a frnd… If he values ur wish then he will manage some how and reply back with out his gf getting to know about it

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Yeah…

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Anonymous
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He he you forgot to tap to switchπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

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Yeah the good thing is he will always text me back when i text him cause he will always be there for me… And i know I’m prolly wrong for this but I want him to text me for one time…

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Anonymous
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Yeah… It’s a bit annoying to always tap switch… The older version was like u only had to do it once so i forgot it…

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Anonymous
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He he I totally understand that
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Anonymous
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Now.u have to msg him as its his birthday… I dont think hell msg you as he will be under the pump thinking how his girlfrnd would react. I hope he.does.msg you.

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Anonymous
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Oh his birthday is in like 3 weeks

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Lol i thought it was today…

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Nope just overthinking early…

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Anonymous
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It happens. Abhi ke liye relax πŸ™‚

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Anonymous
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Sorry don’t understand Hindi (i think…)

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Anonymous
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Ah ok… I meant for now relax!! U still hve 3 weeks time…

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Anonymous
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Yeah…

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May I know which country ur from?

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Anonymous
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UK u?

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That’s good… I am from India…

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Anonymous
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Nice

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UK is my favourite country!!! Stayed there for 3 yrs

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Anonymous
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Cool!! I like Indian food… But never been there sadly…

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Ah food is great here!!! U gotta visit India for it…

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Anonymous
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Definitely!!

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Anonymous
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Ur interacting with other folks on the situation u hve right now and I guess I am disturbing u with India, UK stuff…

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Anonymous
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Nah it’s ok it’s getting my mind a bit off this…

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Ah thats good…

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Anonymous
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Yup…

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Anonymous
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So ru studying or working?

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Anonymous
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Studying

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Cool!!! What ru in to?

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I like reading…

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Anonymous
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Nice you should it’s really fun

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Ya, have ordered few books… Will get started ASAP.

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Anonymous
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Good!! Which books?

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Power of subconscious mind, Ikigai, sacred nectar etc

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Anonymous
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Oh… Haven’t heard of them…

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He he may be ur on to very high level of reading😬

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Nah. There are a lot of books so it’s plausible that i never heard of them I’m not all knowing lol

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Ya, true…

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Good nightπŸ™‚

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Anonymous
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Good night :)

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Totally not. It’s sweet. Pls text

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But what?! If i do… Just happy birthday seems to cold but I also don’t want to text a full paragraph…

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Just text happy birthday. It’s enough. Ur just wishing na

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Anonymous
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Yeah but isn’t that a bit cold…

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It’s better than writing whole paragraph. And it’s better than not wishing at all.

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Anonymous
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True…

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Yes it is

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Anonymous
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Yeah i thought so too but I also don’t want to be mean and don’t…

Chris @boredaf123

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Wishing a simple happy bday is okay. But things get weird when you try to bring back what you both had once.

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Yeah… But I really want to go back to what we had…

Chris @boredaf123

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I would advise against that. It’s gonna complicate stuff for you and him

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Anonymous
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Yeah…

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