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Anonymous

Is it weird if i text my old best friend happy birthday after not talking for 2 month?

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Anonymous

No its not weird

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Anonymous

But we haven’t talked in month and kind of ended it on a weird note…

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Anonymous

That’s alright… This is the chance to break the ice… If the silence continues then the frndship will be lost forever

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Anonymous

It’s always like this i reach out and the next day we ignore each other again… But I also don’t want to be mean and not concratulate…

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Anonymous

But I also don’t want to lose him forever…

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Anonymous

If u value ur frnd then you should… Atleast a good silence is better than bitter silence.

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Anonymous

True… But I also don’t want to look desperate… Sorry I’m making this prolly more complicated then it is…

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Anonymous

In this case you should wish him. Loosing frnds is the worst to happen in life… Trust me on this

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Anonymous

That’s alright… U wanna talk on this?

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Anonymous

Like we “broke up” in the end of June and since them i always texted him some days and we talked like we always did and it was so much fun and yeah but then the next day it was back to normal and we didn’t talk anymore…

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Anonymous

If things were good then why did things get sour

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Anonymous

He got a girlfriend and she didn’t like us talking or being friends…

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Anonymous

Oh ok now i get it… Look, he is ur frnd, so just text him happy birthday… Its not a sin to wish a frnd… If he values ur wish then he will manage some how and reply back with out his gf getting to know about it

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Anonymous

Yeah…

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Anonymous

He he you forgot to tap to switch🤦‍♂️

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Anonymous

Yeah the good thing is he will always text me back when i text him cause he will always be there for me… And i know I’m prolly wrong for this but I want him to text me for one time…

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Anonymous

Yeah… It’s a bit annoying to always tap switch… The older version was like u only had to do it once so i forgot it…

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Anonymous

He he I totally understand that

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Anonymous

Now.u have to msg him as its his birthday… I dont think hell msg you as he will be under the pump thinking how his girlfrnd would react. I hope he.does.msg you.

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Anonymous

Oh his birthday is in like 3 weeks

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Anonymous

Lol i thought it was today…

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Anonymous

Nope just overthinking early…

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Anonymous

It happens. Abhi ke liye relax 🙂

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Anonymous

Sorry don’t understand Hindi (i think…)

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Anonymous

Ah ok… I meant for now relax!! U still hve 3 weeks time…

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Anonymous

Yeah…

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Anonymous

May I know which country ur from?

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Anonymous

UK u?

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Anonymous

That’s good… I am from India…

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Anonymous

Nice

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Anonymous

UK is my favourite country!!! Stayed there for 3 yrs

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Anonymous

Cool!! I like Indian food… But never been there sadly…

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Anonymous

Ah food is great here!!! U gotta visit India for it…

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Anonymous

Definitely!!

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Anonymous

Ur interacting with other folks on the situation u hve right now and I guess I am disturbing u with India, UK stuff…

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Anonymous

Nah it’s ok it’s getting my mind a bit off this…

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Anonymous

Ah thats good…

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Anonymous

Yup…

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Anonymous

So ru studying or working?

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Anonymous

Studying

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Anonymous

Cool!!! What ru in to?

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Anonymous

I like reading…

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Anonymous

Nice you should it’s really fun

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Anonymous

Ya, have ordered few books… Will get started ASAP.

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Anonymous

Good!! Which books?

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Power of subconscious mind, Ikigai, sacred nectar etc

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Anonymous

Oh… Haven’t heard of them…

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Anonymous

He he may be ur on to very high level of reading😬

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Nah. There are a lot of books so it’s plausible that i never heard of them I’m not all knowing lol

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Anonymous

Ya, true…

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@naveed14312

Good night🙂

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Anonymous

Good night :)

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Anonymous

Totally not. It’s sweet. Pls text

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Anonymous

But what?! If i do… Just happy birthday seems to cold but I also don’t want to text a full paragraph…

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Anonymous

Just text happy birthday. It’s enough. Ur just wishing na

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Anonymous

Yeah but isn’t that a bit cold…

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Anonymous

It’s better than writing whole paragraph. And it’s better than not wishing at all.

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Anonymous

True…

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Anonymous

Yes it is

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Anonymous

Yeah i thought so too but I also don’t want to be mean and don’t…

Chris @boredaf123

Wishing a simple happy bday is okay. But things get weird when you try to bring back what you both had once.

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Anonymous

Yeah… But I really want to go back to what we had…

Chris @boredaf123

I would advise against that. It’s gonna complicate stuff for you and him

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Anonymous

Yeah…

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