Is it toxic to go through your spouseβs phone and messages? I started doing this after I found some messages from a girl who used to flirt with him. There were no messages that freaked me out though it bothered me he kept replying. And then I noticed he started deleting the conversations and I donβt know how to confront him. What if there is nothing to confront about? Iβd be this weird crackhead suspicious wifeβ¦and i really want to trust him.
Thisβ¦ doesnβt add well. It bothers so much, isnβt it, to be uncertain? You need to have the talk and say how was your feeling. Donβt jump into conclusion, it might means nothing, but itβs important to have a conversation to discuss something that might be an obstacle.