Is it toxic to go through your spouse’s phone and messages? I started doing this after I found some messages from a girl who used to flirt with him. There were no messages that freaked me out though it bothered me he kept replying. And then I noticed he started deleting the conversations and I don’t know how to confront him. What if there is nothing to confront about? I’d be this weird crackhead suspicious wife…and i really want to trust him.
This… doesn’t add well. It bothers so much, isn’t it, to be uncertain? You need to have the talk and say how was your feeling. Don’t jump into conclusion, it might means nothing, but it’s important to have a conversation to discuss something that might be an obstacle.