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Anonymous

Is it too much to expect time from your boyfriend? Is it too much to expect that he tell him small details about his day to you, tell you how pretty you look and make you feel important, miss you when you have a busy day, be excited to talk to you? Is it really too much to expect these things??

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Anonymous

That isn’t too much but understand where he is coming from too some times most of us guys didn’t get raised in a way that we need to share everything detail of our day. Soo it will take time for few guys to do that communicate with him say that u like it when you share details about his life and day and tell him u like it when he praises u and adores you… It might take little time but if he loves you he will definitely change little by little.

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Anonymous

But what if he doesn’t reciprocate the kind of efforts and energy I give. Won’t that make me sad? He says I’m imp to him but doesn’t make me feel that way

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Anonymous

Then he is a narcassit

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Anonymous

Depends on how long this has been going on imo…

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Anonymous

Sex is not a prerequisite of a healthy relationship. Also, we are in a LDR so what do you think is more imp, sex or connect?

Anonymous @engineer08

It’s not a lot to ask for. Your boyfriend should be doing this already for you. And if he doesn’t, then he’s a fool. If he doesn’t give you what you need, then give it to yourself.

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Anonymous

It’s like other guys give me what I want but those are the things I want my guy to do for me. I don’t want to accept it from other guys

Anonymous @engineer08

I feel you. I’ve learned this the hard way but you have to empower yourself. I’m in the process of doing it for myself because I’m tired of waiting for my guy to do it for me. Women have to support each other. And I’m here for you. You are strong and independent and you are enough for yourself. Give yourself the love you crave and others will fall at your feet.

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Anonymous

Yess! I guess this is what I need to hear right now. Self love is the key to be happy and enough. Thanks, girl! I’m gald you replied <3

Anonymous @engineer08

Anytime! I’m happy to help! Love yourself❤️

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Anonymous

1- you should be really happy you have a boyfriend. Many of us have given up on finding a person
2- as mentioned above majority of the guys function way different. They r not brought up in a way to show feelings or appreciate small things. All the things you have mentioned are things they show constantly through movies and shows. In real life that’s like really rare.
3- if it’s really an issue talk to him and be very firm and demand these things. He may understand or he won’t
4- rather than lowering your expectations… try learning his side of the story. His personality… and what things you do make him happy… after all it takes 2 to be happy in the relationship…

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Anonymous

This is my first ever relationship and it’s been two months. Maybe because I’ve never been in one I have unrealistic or more expectations. Do you think I need to figure things out and not cling on to what I want?

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Anonymous

Girl everything is a learning point. Take time and understand what’s happening. Learn more about yourself. Take time. Don’t be worried and for sure don’t be clingy. Give him time and space too…

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Nope not at all

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Black widow @shreya0208

Well it’s not much to ask for… these days boys are spoilt by society and they are not taught how to treat your girl…so yeah always date a guy who cherishes you … otherwise no point. And trust me such guys exist!.. personal experience

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Anonymous

texting to connect on NowAndMe (3rd person)

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Anonymous

At this point I at least wish for something. Something’s better than nothing. I don’t know if I should settle for less

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Black widow @shreya0208

You shouldn’t…I know it’s easy for me to say but trust me you deserve better

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