Is it possible you can have feelings for someone but maybe feel somewhere that they’re not the one. Or it can also be fear right? There’s very thin line in between. If anybody knows abt the subtle difference lemme know!
This happens often when we start liking a person that is not our “ideal” type of partner. You can like someone without wanting a relationship.
Yeaa that’s how it feels. But idk whether to take the chance or not. Uk had such a Terrible experience in past that I don’t wanna make a fool out of myself again
I think you are just attracted to the person. Maybe you are just attracted to how they look or maybe you have something in common with them but if you don’t feel that connection then it’s not worth it . If fear is involved somehow then run for the hills.
Not it’s not about looks. The looks are kinda below average. I love them for their personality and calm nature and for who they are. But it’s long distance so I don’t know enough yet. And had horrible experience in past so maybe I feel it’s bcz of that I’m having fear. And also not so sure about this person too cz uk long distance so can’t tell really if they’re really invested or no. Sometimes feels like they’re genuine other times it seems they just have infatuation. Don’t know.
Plz dont start a relationship in long distance if you have even 1% doubt.because there is so much up and downs in relationship.and we cant manage these in long distance.
Then maybe try to think what would happen if you do get in a relationship with each other. Will you be able to handle the long distance thing? Do you trust that person enough to be in a long distance with them? And most importantly are you completely sure that you have romantic attraction to them and not platonic attraction.
