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@tanishhaa13

Is it okay to feel insecure, unloved, ignored, most importantly misunderstood in a relationship sometimes?
I’m in a relationship from past 7 months with a boy. we’ve lost the sparke we had earlier. We have more fights than usual talks. Being in a long distance made our relation really tough. I can’t call him because of my strict parents. We misunderstood each other really quick.

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Yes. It’s okay, it’s fine to feel that way. It’s not wrong. I’m in a 6 years relationship and I still feel that way from time to time when life gets hard. It’s a test, a hurdle, an obstacle, u can call it anything, but as long as u both communicate well with each other, listen to each other and be honest to each other, u both are gonna get through this and last forever

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@tanishhaa13

Tysm❤️

snktmore
@snktmore

It’s absolutely normal to feel the way you are feeling. Developing long term relationships takes time and deeper understanding of each other. In every relationship at some point we expect our partner to behave in a certain way. When such expectations aren’t met you’ll feel disengaged or insecure. Also, expressing love and affection differs in each individual. Trust me being a male I can assure you we(males) are bad at expressing ourselves. I’ll suggest you to give more time to your relationship if you feel is the one for you and remind each other of what ignited the spark for the first time you met.

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@tanishhaa13

Thank you veryy muchh. I needed a good piece of advice.❤️

snktmore
@snktmore

My pleasure!! 😇