Is it okay that you and ur ex boyfriend are giving each other a second chance but he hasn’t told his friends about it yet so whenever he’s with his friends he blocks you on social media so that they don’t find out but then adds u back when his friends are gone?
This blocking game is sus dude👀
True he’s like I wanna keep it lowkey and not tell anyone so that’s why I block them when I’m with them and so they don’t get sus
Girl, if you aren’t comfortable in this blocking low-key relationship. You should say something to him.
You deserve someone who’s willing to love you infront of everyone ✨ not in low-key way😐
I have said that to him but he’s like we already broke up and all and now that we are giving it a second chance I don’t want anyones bad thing to get on our relationship…and he said blocking is just a temporary thing
Love is not some hide and seek game. Relationships are not always perfect sometimes it’s messy. Do whatever you wanna with this in mind.
Hope everything will work out well ✨
not telling is fine…but blocking is not
like idk why would he block you if he is with his friends… do they check every single time if you are blocked or not??..and why can’t he say that like yeah we are mature people so we have unblocked each other i think if he is true then he can stand for your relationship a little by still being anonymous not suspicious
That’s what I say but he’s like oh my friends take my phone away and they check like whattt
bruh he is clearly lying …no way that is the reason
Abheet Jain @be_you
My notion has always been to not judge a person too soon. Since you guys have mutually decided to give it a go again, you must put your faith on him. (Hoping it is just a start and there have been no similar instances other than this)
Otherwise you will keep building upon this doubt of yours and this will affect your relationship negatively. Who knows at the end of it, you find out you were wrong at the start itself. But till then, you won’t have an option to go back and control the damage.
On the other side of it, getting blocked too often is not a good feeling at all and will surely take a toll on your health. Hence would suggest you guys find a way out.
As a suggestion :
- Good communication always helps. You can ask him to take his time to open up on the reason behind, and simultaneously assuring your bf that you won’t judge him whatsoever.
- Why not explore a chat medium which his friends don’t know about.
Finally, respect yourself and make sure you figure out something that restores your peace again.
Thank you!!! But I think I’ve had enough of it it’s been like this for weeks now and before when we were together he always put his friends before me so I’m not adding him back anymore and it’s done now… and if he can’t take a stand for this relationship in front of his friends then I don’t think he respects it enough
Like he doesn’t even let me know that oh my friends are around so imma block u he just blocks me without even telling me
Abheet Jain @be_you
Yeah looks a bit messed up. You have given a few chances already, let him come back to you this time