Is it okay, if my boyfriend asked me to lend him some money and I denied? I kind of feel weird for saying no.

Yaa yes certainly okay yaar, you don’t have to feel awkward or weird in any sense

Relationships

I once dated this guy. He was nice and did things I liked. One day he kissed me out of the blue and next thing you know we are always hanging out with each other. Ive talked to him time to time before this but I just didn't know how to take this relationship. He never did ask me out or anything but I just assumed. This went on about a year. During this year he wanted to do stuff that I wasn't ready for. But he would often force himself on me. It was horrible. I didn't want this. Next thing I know was breaking it off. But he did not want this to end. He would text me day and night asking if we can back together and I did I gave him a second chance. Next thing you know he is showing up at my work trying to do inappropriate things. Thats when I finally ended it all. I blocked his number and blocked him on social media. After that whole relationship I was disgusted with myself. Mostly my body. I started not to take of myself and I was in depression for a while. Finally this week I started to take care of myself little by little. I still dont like myself but I am trying to learn.

Boyfriend

I’m going through a rough break up. He cheated. It was my first relationship after a very nasty divorce from an abusive marriage. I’m really struggling with feeling not worthy of love and having no one that I can count on, despite being the one that always takes care of everyone else.  Even though I have proof in black and white of his infidelity, I still feel like I should give him another chance and an almost desperation to work it out.  

Breakup

I talk with a guy everyday...like we share things about pur daily mundane life...I like to talk to him...as he never demands or say anything uncomfortable...we've been talking since months like 9 10 months...I know him from our college day but we never talked like this before...we became close after college...now the thing is....idk what is it between us!! I like him...but he had been in a bad phase because of his breakup...and he says that he could never be in a relationship...then why does he treats me well...behaves like he actually cares....understanding someone can be hard...like what is this even...he doesn't flirt with me either...but only talks with me time to time..ph god idk what to do

3am Thoughts

I'm in love with a guy who loves me too but my parents wouldn't approve.. It would hurt them very much... They want me to get married to someone of the same caste. I don't want to be the reason for them getting hurt. I'm very confused and frustrated not knowing what to do

Well, I’ve mixed feelings. So there’s this guy who’s my childhood friend like I’ve known from past 15 years at least. Since the I always liked him, I had attraction before but then later we started talking regularly and then I fell in love with him ( this was 7-8 years ago). He got to a year later that I have feelings for me but then he tried to set me up with his friend and that was failed miserably. And then from past 2-3 years I’ve realised that he’s not into me. He ignores me, we don’t talk much now, and whenever he is in a relationship he doesn’t let me know idk why, but his last girlfriend messaged me after breakup that take care of him and all, and that was my first conversation with his girlfriend( this was around 1.5 years ago). Then 10 days before we met after an year and I asked him that his girlfriend broke up with him because of me? But then he said, you were not the reason but definitely she had problems with you. And he was missing her and watching my love missing his ex in front of me was like heartbreaking but I didn’t say anything to him. Now I’m not sure what should I do, I guess I still have feelings for him because I have never been into a relationship until now because I don’t find that I’ve with anyone what I’ve for him. But he’s simply not interested in me, even 15 mins before I called him because I was missing him and wanted to talk but he never picks up my calls. I don’t know what should I do. 

Love

Just told my boyfriend I can’t see him anymore. I’m a guy. I thought I was pretty much over the guilt and shame, but it came attacking so bad again. Feeling a fair amount of grief combined with it. I feel trapped because I’d love to see him but the guilt and shame are extreme. I don’t have money for therapy and none of my friends and family support my decision, so I pretty much don’t have anyone to help me through this.

LGBTQ

My boyfriend is very confusing. He rejected me and and wants me as his friend. And he is very okay without me in his life. And he says he never loved me and again comes and says he loves me. This loop repeated around 4-5 times over 4 months. And thus time he completely ignored me from his thing. but I'm going back to him again and again since he is the only one i have in my current life. What is he even thinking about me ..does he want me or not ? But he said he is not ready for relationship and marriage after saying that he would marry me surely for 8 months now !

Today my ex bf sanju message me and said that he wants to be in relationship again. As I know his father died last week  I told him to be just friend but he clearly said he don't play this hide and seek he wants only relationship but i am already in relationship with his friend for 8mnth whose name is Abhi. I told abhi everything  he said If
you have any feelings for him go back. 
Abhi  helped me in study as we both are preparing for job.  Sanju helped and support me a lot he always said that i am his life his weakness . I don't decide What should I do? If I leave abhi i will lost my study partner. If I leave sanju he will get hurt as he is very sensitive and also in this situation I don't want to leave him alone. Sanju needs my support  . And for my better career I need abhi's help. Please suggest me the right things to do. 

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