Is it okay for me to wanting to move out of my home just because it’s too much for me mentally and emotionally to take now? I am getting good food and my office doesn’t make it compulsory to come yet for the next two more months.
But i am just so exhausted of being alone and facing and relieving my childhood traumas one by one that I just feel it will be better for me, relieving to just move out the first chance I am getting. Especially since it’s been two years since I was abruptly called to home from college. I have this dilemma, whether to go for it or not?
P.S. it will be my first time going to a different city on my own, I have been living outside in hostels from 6 years but this maybe new for me since I am new to corporate life. But, just the thought of it sounds peaceful to me right now. At the same time, leaving home early makes me feel guilty even though it is painful and lonely for me to be in now. :/
gautham leju @l434
Yes I think you should go for it. A change would be nice
Sanket @sanket
Dont move out now, enjoy the work from home for the rest of 2 months and trust me after this your days would become heavy
They are heavy already. Ever since I came home my anxiety and maybe depression have started taking physical toll on me. I have constant headache, I am anxious everytime, i cry every 2-3 hours and on top of that my parents never understand me, rather most of the time they add to it. They never even take the effort to do so. I just feel emotionally ignored and mentally too. I give out too much of my energy because it’s my family and I try to be there even when they need the slightest, i try to be their support. But, somehow, this doesn’t feel two sided because the exact opposite happens even when I am crying my hearts out. it just feels they don’t care. And I can’t take this anymore. this cycle has got to stop somewhere before I lose myself.
Sanket @sanket
Uh, have you tried expressing yourself using a different language?
Our parents and we do not come from the same background, your parents also have their problem.
You know most of the problems and issues originate from the house itself. Addressing these can help you, else the last resort is to running away from them by shifting to another city,
But meanwhile do try once again
Why do you think extending wfh will be a good idea? Won’t I have a better social life and better mental stability because I will be busy. Because here, i have no friends, there is no scope of going out anywhere because it’s such a small place and all I do is lay on my bed all day and picking on things. Moving out is definitely a better idea even if it means to have some hard work.
Sanket @sanket
Being busy can be exhaustive too
And what I meant by continuing the WFH is once you move out you will have to face tons of changes, so first prepare yourself to face the worst, be it having bad food, staying alone, facing challenging people, handling all the chores and a lot more
This will bring change but you need to gather that strength to handle it too
And I also mentioned addressing the issues at home, I would like to have your focus at that point as well
