Is it ok to lie to family for love? I mean for getting a good impression on your parents for your would be better half? 

If no, should I reveal the truth, even when I know that revealing the truth might be a breakup. We both love each other a lot, but I don't like lying to her parents, even if it's for creating a better impression for me.

Please help me out. 

Actually, I am not the one who's lying. But my gf. And her lies are a but too extravagant

Speaking truth gernally helps...rest manage accordingly 

Well it depends on the matter what u don't want share...but if ur lying then there must be reason. Just do what u feel like..cause u will be able to manage no matter what..all the best yr

Love

I need a hug

3am Thoughts

And here i am, back on this app again, because i am lonely and have no other place to go to when i am sad and broken.

I have to met this go. I just have to. I have to accept that in life some people are luckier, while some have to work really hard. I am now accepting that my school friends meant really important to me, and now it is time I must stop crying over them leaving the country. I shall not dedicate my entire life to them. If they wanted to for me, they would have. I am now accepting that I am falling into the rat race, and I have to get out of it alive. I am now accepting that the fun is over and now there is only struggle. I am now accepting that my alcohol father will never create a happy worthy environment and I am done with it. It is about damn time I stop my emotions take control of me. I am now accepting that, it is what it is. And lastly I am accepting that my mental health will deteriorate vastly, to the point I may even jump off a cliff, but I am powerless to my desire. I shall accept it 











I have a dream job chance but i right now have a confirm job with good future prospect. I dont know whether i should let this confirm job go and try for my dream job (which is contingent). Feeling very confused and stranded.


Conflict

We try to explain people what we feel ,what makes us angry sad or happy but in this phase of explaining others we forget one thing...do they really want to listen us up? Are they really want to know what we are up to..? Or all these efforts are one sided..and everything which are one sided will end up breaking the one who are doing more than that particular person deserves..they put that much efforts that they even forget themselves..not because they don't value themselves..or they don't respect themselves.. because that specific person happiness is all that matters in the end..they ignore their intuitions.. but what happen one day they decided to walk away...walk away from those things which letting them down everytime.. every second of their life... without any explanation they just went away...✨✨


And the person who always wanted them to leave start missing their presence..why?
Because they are the only one 
Who cares for them
Who love them unconditionally
Who listen them up...

But the way is too late in the realisation..he/she walk away from Their life ..
And what left in their life is regret...

Moral of the story "never ignores the efforts of someone..who do everything to make you happy or postive because one day you realise they are the one specific person whom you need in your life.. but they went away from your life"...✨✨✨✨
- Queen 👑

Mental Wellbeing

I need some friends to talk to.

Friends

Why I feel sad meaningless I don't understand why I'm sad and sometimes I feel like I might do something I know won't but this feel is something I can't explain. I loss interest in soo many activities and even loss interest in sex. Is something is wrong with me can someone help me?

Frustration

I have a guy bestfriend and I really treasure him. But I don't feel that the same feelings are reciprocated toward me. I have other friends too who know very well how to show me that they value me. But with him it's always like I am the one who has to make an effort. He became so estranged after we became close, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt that he is stressed Because of exams. He had a separate timings for tuitions as well, it was like as if he didn't want to be seen with me. I guess his mum doesn't like me either.  He shifted schools but I was the last one he told that he shifted schools. The one day before he joined his new  school. I was so sad and hurt, not because I was the last one he told it to but because of how he left me. Juts goes to show how much I love him. And yes I am admitting that I love him more than just friends, I was actually in love with him. I guess I still am. He would leave me to be on my own if the bus was empty leaving me to be in complete dangers of r@p€
He went to abroad of uni and yes I get that his world does not revolve around me, but it is always me who shares what I am going through and my frustrations because I really trust him, but he never reciprocates. He just replies. I have told him to vent to me and I will always be there but he just doesn't. Look I get it he must be way more comfortable with his guy friends but what the heck.And I guess he does not want people to mistake us for a couple or that we are lovers but you just can't be so distant with someone you are so close to. I begged him to vent to me but I have been trying for 4 hours. He didn't even come to my bday and he does not express any anger towards me either. So he is coming back to India and we decided to visit a closeby city for holidasy for a getaway for 2 to 3 days. Get 2 separate rooms (goes without saying) spend some time together have fun. He was cool with the idea first but when I reminded him he said he is super unsure because there is a wedding at his place. I was really upset because he went on a trip to his abroad place with his college guy friends, but not with me even though we go back so many years. I used to get really angry because I get flashbacks that I wasn't valuable to him because his mom would not let him come to my bday party, but I calmed him down saying that it's okay and it's even okay if we don't meet. I know the holiday thing is something boyfriends and girlfriends do but we are not it! 
I feel.really distant to him and i am tired of trying to make all the efforts from my side.


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