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Anonymous

Is it OK to feel so worthless. When my friends are doing jobs and doing whatever they want in their life enjoying their life. But iam struggling with the preparations for the job…the tonts of family members make even worse for me…
It feels like outdated when u sacrifice so much and still suffering to get wht u deserve…
I sometimes feel like so stressful and anxious. This worthlessness is eating me day by day. My hair volume reduce to an extent I just feel so underconfident all the time this hairfall stress anxiety and worthlessness is gonna do wht with me I don’t know…
This worthlessness make me feel ashamed in front of everyone…😔😔😖

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I’m trying to but…the fear of missing out…when u have on bet ur everything here…
Kbhi kbhi toh sochti hu friends ko face kese kru…

I didn’t achieved anything in my life yet…well I’m trying but no one is understanding that…they all just wants result…so do I. …but I’m trying hard…this stress eaten all my long beautiful hairs…😡😞😔😔

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Anonymous

That’s the prblm na…all my friends have private jobs but I’m preparing for govt job…

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Anonymous

Yeah I’m trying my best…im not demotivated but just feeling so worthless right now ki itne saalo me mne kya hi kiya h like remarkable…bs prepare hi kr rhi hu mann se
Sare social media se dur hu…
No parties nothing bs pdhai…

Fir bhi sb agr ese compare and tont marte h toh bura lgta h…
Private job is also good but easier to get than a govt job…time lgta h usme…ye koi ni smjta…
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Anonymous

Yeah exactly😣😔

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Anonymous

Yeah true…

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Upsc

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Anonymous

Ohh okay abi vacancies nikli h firm bhara ya ab bharoge?

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Anonymous

Ohh okay but give it a try though👍👍👍

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Rose🫶 @rose_77

Yess it is okay to feel worthless. We are humans. We feel things. But always remember life is not a race. Just keep going on and do your best. You’ll make it. Rooting for you (⁠ ⁠˘⁠ ⁠³⁠˘⁠)⁠♥

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Anonymous

Yeah but how I’m feeling when all my friends enjoying their lives with their jobs and im just trying to get one…with all the tonts ki itne saalo se pdh hi rhi h exam kb clear hoga. I feel so frustrated sometimes. Upr se jisko dekho vo muje yaad dilata rhta h ki how much i lost my hairs…but un sbko stress ni dikhta h which I’m tackling…

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Rose🫶 @rose_77

Ahh sweetie everyone is taunting you. You should take that as a challenge. You shut their mouth by landing on a good job and for that you need to work hard rn ignoring all the BS.
And as far as hair fall is concerned, apply aloe vera on your scalp and massage gently before washing your hair and don’t take too much of stress. It’ll help xoxo

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Yeah im doing that only…to get a job and shut their mouths…
I didn’t lost my motivation but it’s just the worthlessness…ki iss age me everyone wants their things by own na…and I’m struggling to getting it yet…

Thanks for aloevera suggestion. …im trying it already…

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Ebisnow21 @snowflakes21

The aim is to get money , not the job, think

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Yeah of course money but with a job…respectful job the status govt job have and most importantly having self worth…achieving something that worth actually…
Hope u get it…

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My reply is under review rn

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Anonymous

Heyy, Its alrightttt! We ganna get through this. Try to find a calm place away from family and their vioces. I strongly belive that the environment can make u stress. Hearing endless of commentss everyday isn’t easy… but at least we can find a calm place withen our location, it could be a park or libraya… ect.
I can’t give u any tips about the topic jop … I never had one myself. Not getting one isn’t the end! Take ur time! Getting what we want isn’t easy it always comes with sacrifices. Try to just stay away from everyone who u think effect u from focusing! It can effect ur study and hard work in a bad way( talking from personal experience). About ur hair… don’t think about it untile u are finshed with ur stress… it must be hard trying to lose some of it… but its okay, we can think of it as one of the reason why we should get rib of stress.
((( sorry for any spelling mistakes😅

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Anonymous

Thank u yrr
But as I’m a girl they don’t let me go anywhere outside home…bs ghr me reh kr pdho…
I also feel ki thoda bahar jake I’ll feel better with my stress but I’m not allowed to do so…
Yeah hairfall is normal I get it but jb hr koi bolne lge ki nhi jyda ho rha…agr me dhyan na dena chahu fir bhi bol bolke…they made my attention to it more…which is causing more hairfall I think…
Stress is im habbitant of but this worthlessness is killing me from inside…

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I am going through the same thing …and i can feel you how tough it is …nobody cares that how hard you try they only care about your result…my days are also and tough…and it feels like shit some day …and i am also wonder sometimes whether my hard work gonna pay off or not…it’s very hard to deal with…i don’t know what should I say to you to give some comfort …

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Yeah buddy…i can get ur feelings
U left with nothing but the silence with kills u from inside with so many loud questions their about ur worth…

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anuj @anujvohra

It’s okay to feel like this…just focus on yourself.with my experience, i am telling you, it doesn’t matter what your friends thinks of you…just prepare for your exams and also see if you can get a job simanteaously. Find groups who are unknown to you like I played football where no one knew me…it’s was helpful

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anuj @anujvohra

And your hair fall can improve with good food and sunlight…also use thalair oil, it’s good for hairfall

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Anonymous

Friends are gleeful but it’s just my fear from inside that being inferiority comes and i feel so lost among them…
Sometimes so much so that i start avoiding meeting them…

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Friends are supportive*

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anuj @anujvohra

Yes that’s perfectly fine…meet people who are unknown to you if you are okay like a sports group where you can discuss common interest.

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What is that thalier oil

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As I said above im not allowed to go outside…as I’m a girl😒

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Okay. See if you are allowed to go for a walk in daylight…thalair oil you check in Amazon.it worked for me…see if it solves your hairfall issue. Take care

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Yeah thank u I’ll definately check…and try to go out for a walk atleast…
Thank u it means a lot ur suggestions and replies will help me I think…

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