Is it necessary to be well spoken?! If not thn what are the pros and cons of not being able to express what you really want to say.(ref to all aspect of life)

It's good to well spoken.. it will help...involves manners and culture too

Adulting

Feeling lonely in banglore

3am Thoughts

Good morning everyone 
I want to share one incident which happened yesterday I am in confusion whether I did wrong or right I want your opinions 
Actually I was so tired and I was sleeping then our hostel aunty came she knocked my door slowly I told her please aunty come afterwards as of now I am sleeping than she was standing outside my door that aunty asked my another classmate to knock my door, and she knocked it very harshly  I was so much disturbed guys and when I opened door she left and without saying sorry I was so much frustrated because of her behaviour 
Then after some while I went and knocked her door same way after that I feel guilty why I did it.. My situation this time is like I am feeling soo anxiety ll the time because I am the only one person from my state studying here everything is different, food, language people
Was I right or wrong please give me your opinions

Anxiety

Its my birthday once again. I've been yelled at by my partner, all my friends forgot, most of my family didn't greet me, and my mum didn't call this year. Happy birthday to me. 

Hey guys idk if you still remember me but I once uninstalled this app for heart break, and when I installed this app again it didn't allow me to back up but some how I got it back today, I miss being here also the new update sucks I miss the older version tho I hope I would find the person I lost here again

Hi guys I don't know what to do
I completed my graduation and I want to read more and educate myself more but due to family issues I started to work and i am working in a BPM  Services and the i stabilized the financial situation and I saved the amount and start preparing for the CMA exam I got admitted but I am unable to concentrate I had gap of 1 year in studies and I got addicted to social media and I kinda have FOMO like what if I miss out something like that so please help me giving some suggestions i really want to clear this exam it's my dream 

Career

I am a 23 year old girl, I was in a relationship from last 8 years at first it was nice but then the last 2 years were hell, he became very ignorant, he just used to disappear for weeks and then used to act like he is doing nothing wrong. I had history of anxiety and panic attacks it started again before 2 years because of my relationship but he never acknowledged my mental health he always used to say that I am over reacting or faking being anxious. I used to cry myself to sleep everyday, I was so helpless I couldn't breathe. So I decided to end the relationship and it took me to years to realise that. In August 2020 I told him I want to breakup with him and things between us are not working out. But after that I don't know what happend to him he was so ignorant before but then after listening about breakup he just didn't agree for it, but I knew I was done with him. I had given him innumerable chances in past and nothing changed so I didn't have energy to give him another chance or to deal with him, so I was very clear that I want to breakup. After that he started blackmailing me, he was like I will ruin your life. After that he attempted suicide just to scare me and he thought I'll say yes. I got so traumatized after that. Now he is just forcing me to marry him. It's been 8 months since breakup but he is just not ready to understand. I blocked him everywhere but today he managed to call me from unknown number and I again got so anxious and had panic attack that I don't even remember the conversation I couldn't remember a word, I just remember crying and was struggling to breathe. I just want to end all this. I JUST WANT TO ESCAPE.

Suicidal Ideation

Valentine day is for every relationship 💗 go on a date with parents or with friends ✌️

Just stop yammering online otherwise I hope you stay single forever 😇

How would you explain "Self Love" to someone who don't understand or feel it? 
People often say to love someone you need to love yourself first but what if that reality dont exist for someone?
If a person only finds joy in people, what possible understanding of self love we could deliver to them, to help. 


Open to thoughts and views.

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