Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Is it common for people to ignore and underestimate and underpriorotise all the good things? They show all excitement and enthusiasm with the negative ones, who, at the end hurt them.
In return the next good one gets hurt. Because of being with that person who got hurt. They literally bleed on them. Although blood isn’t observed. No body addresses the mental health issues.
EVERYONE IS SELFISH, CARELESS AND DISHONEST.
This is the way i feel especially about the people in relationships.
I, sometimes, regret coming into this.
She can say whatever she wants and hurt me like anything but i can’t do the same. I’ll be judged and will be a bad guy. Is this feminism?
It should be gender neutral hein na …
This is one of the common relationship issues and this is me.