Is it bad that your boyfriend is staying online even tho he says he’s tired and says he gonna go to sleep so goodnight? 

He’s been doing all long since we have been together

No he’s online on the app that he says goodnight to me on and says he’s gonna sleep

IT IS A RED FLAG. Communicate once and see but very high chances that then he will start hiding things from you. If he needs some space, he can ask for it from you but not lie. Trust me, this happened with me and I ignored all of it but later it just intensifies. 

Confusion

Okay so help me out! 

I am in college..I am in the placement cell. We got promoted and now I'm the senior coordinator. The new president is/was one of my good friend. My boyfriend and him got in a verbal fight (pretty serious) a week ago. I am him haven't talked since the fight. 

Now the placement cell has started working and all and I am the core member with only 4 others! So it's 5 of us 

Now I don't know whether or not I should join and do stuff and doing stuff includes me talking to him, and I don't really know how to talk to him after the fight!! 

Friends

My ex brokeup with me after 6 years because his parents didn't agree for our marriage. I am trying my best to moveon but it is very tough. Its been almost 5 months but still now i sometimes message him, tough he has blocked me from everywhere. I want to talk him but i don't know why i really wanna talk. I am tired of crying from him. Somethimes i feel i should talk to my family so that they can talk to his. But is it worthful? I don't know what i really fell, why i have the strange feelings which i can't understand myself even when i am trying to move on. 

Breakup

do you believe in 3 day rule in relationship?

Popularized by the romcom, the three-day dating rule insists that a person wait three full days before contacting his/her bf/gf. It says give him 3 days if he comes back, it loves you. If he don't he doesn't.

Is it true? I had s huge fight with him. After which we noth are not talking from several days. I am worried that he won't talk...

Relationships

I love him but i know he’s not loyal. He makes me happy and I’m scared to let him go. I’m just getting to a point in my life where i feel like i can’t take it any more. I feel
Empty without him and i know the right thing is to let him go. I tried looking pass all the unfaithful times and all the lies but is tearing me inside. As much as i try to let it go and not think about it i know i deserve better but i don’t know why I’m so in love with him. I tell myself every week “Kim this is the week you have to put yourself first and let him go” but i can’t never take that step. Every time I’m not with him i miss him, when i hear his voice i smile, and every time i see him i still get the same butterflies in my tummy since the first day i met him. 

Aahh there's this one famous guy in our college. The very first day we talked he flirted with me. We had a call on the same night and I told him most of the things about me. He told me we will meet the nest day to which I said no. We are living in the same hostel. Idk what I want to ask why I'm writing this here. Nothing makes sense. Idk what I want from him. He ghosted me after sometime (which was totally acceptable coz he tried to talk to me so many times and I couldn't coz of my social anxiety) I was so sad on that time being. Then when I moved on (there was nothing still idk why I do this to myself) he made a comeback and I am still as hyper as earlier and reply to his text within minutes (idk people say it's not right, but I just can't do it. I have to reply people immediately maybe coz I'm in need to talk with someone. Whatever maybe the topic is.)  Now...idk what this is. I think it's just infatuation coz he gets the thing I talk about. He gets me. I love the way he write some words in text. I've also told him that. But he doesn't seem interested in anymore. And it's ok I will not disturb him as well but atleast tell me that's what you want so both of us can I've in peace. All. Idk if it's a question or a vent lmao. You can give your piece of advice. Thank you.

Actually I have a ex-boyfriend. Idk whether he loves mme or not but l I love him. Idk how & why we still talk like gf-bf(not nibba-nibbi). We broke up coz he asked me for nudes everytime. He told me everytime that he wouldn't repeat the same mistake again but he still did the same. I was really fed up with him. But I still love him. I also treated him like an option but I stopped treating him like that. I disrespected him sometimes but never ever abused his parents or siblings like he did to me. I don't have any courage to trust any guy now. 
But one of my friend proposed me last December. I haven't talked to him yet coz i was feeling awkward . I muted him everywhere. But yesterday i saw that he had uploaded some sad quotes in his story. I asked his frnd. His frnd told me that he was posting this kind of stories from few months, maybe you had just seen that day. I thought he got a gf. But he posted these stories for me. I don't like him but idk what to do. I told him everything abt me, still he wants to be with me. Should I give him any chance ? 

Love

He said he will text me .. but from 1 week it's just silence . Is it way to get rid of me 

Anxiety

A guy said me a month ago that he liked me ...I said   I'm not ready for any relationship thing...so we decided to stay friends....we were on a good page for a while but idk what happened ..I cannot feel that energy with him.....it's being 7 days he didn't texted or anything (he says he busy in studies stuff and he feeling not good) but when he used not feel good back then ,still we used to talk but now the scene is different .....

I want talk but last 2 times I texted first keeping my ego aside and while having conversation we were not vibing same anymore...

Now this time what should I do ?

It really feels bad when someone make you feel so special and suddenly they escape for days

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