rayofhope @radh
No, itβs a subjective thing. Itβs completely fine if you donβt want kids ever.
But waht if my partner wants one?! Am I supposed to compromise ?
What*
rayofhope @radh
You can think of adopting one.
Wellβ¦Iβve tried talking but he never takes it seriously. Heβs hoping that my opinion changes with time . I too hope on changing that because itβs going to be difficult for our families and him π
I would love that when Iβm ready to have one. But there will be family opposition. so I donβt know what to doβ¦well thereβs time β¦hope this gets sorted π
rayofhope @radh
Yeah I hope it gets fine with time. Families are really vague. But I hope that they understand you, eventually.
of course it isnβt! its your choice! thereβs plenty of people just like you
But my partnerβs opinion too matters right ?! Should I be compromising this in future ?! Iβm all confused ! π
mh1215 @mh1215
no way! your perfect person will think the same as you and will be fine with not having kids. you shouldnβt be with someone who doesnβt align with a core value such as that. hopefully, you shouldnβt have to compromise