Is having the felling of love care the worst thing in the world. Coz in the ends its just gonna hurt.. always goonna hurt coz nothing is permanent.. 

Nothing is permanent but the feeling is permanent.. living together might not be possible but don't you remember love ask for sacrifices. 

Love n care is a beautiful journey not a destination. So just try to feel n enjoy the journey and stop worrying about the destination. 😇

3am Thoughts

Hello everybody!

I hope everyone’s doing good!

I wish to know some new genuine ppl to share each other’s life’s matter. 


I just said one thing by mistake . I know it hurted her but she could have given me a second chance. 

Breakup

Bonjour les gens 🌸

Life

I’m an insecure guy. I know it.

The story is, my girlfriend who I dated in 2019 and broke up with in 2020 came back in my life this March 2021.
We’ve had a lovely come back into this relationship since then until, I got to know she was on a week long trip with a guy and been intimate across the week with him nearly 10 days before we came back into the relationship.
My problem is, she didn’t tell me about it and chose to deny for one day before accepting it.
I feel if I was in her shoes, I would have informed her about an intimacy shared 10 days before this relationship given our rapport.
Her explanation was, she isn’t going to tell me anything about the guy or details of her association or the level of her relationship with him as she doesn’t owe this to me ‘for the period she wasn’t dating me’ [I agree with that argument].
My problem is, 1. Why hide when it was so recent ie 10 days before you patched up with me. 2. Why deny when you could have just told me.

She said, I thought you will give me a character certificate and hence I hid it. My concern about this situation is her choosing to hide it when we are planning our wedding together soon. It just gives me a sense that she may hide anything she feels ‘I may not like’ and that’s bad for a relationship. As I may get to know about it later and may kill myself for it.

Our 2019 relationship streak also broke on trust issues.

Please put some sense in me if you can. What am I thinking? Should I let go? Is she right in hiding a thing like this?

Relationships

Anyone up to talk??

Personal Growth

Hi all,

New on this platform and what a time I chose to discover this. I have been feeling quite off since a few days.
I am currently staying at home and thankfully me and my family  are doing great health wise especially. But, then on few weekends I start feeling certain lows where I want to be completely alone in my own space and thoughts. I do not wish to talk with anyone and slowly it takes me to a place where I start feeling that I am a very selfish person for feeling this. 

Is there someone who is going through the same? Would make me feel a little sane in this crazy time maybe.

Lusty

my boyfriend is not putting the same effort he used to. We used to talk a lot and enjoy each others company but now I feel like he doesn't care anymore. he's also kinda starting to point out things wrong with me. he seems like a completely different person, he's like a true Gemini its starting to drain me honestly. I don't want to leave him though. I love him so much and he's kinda the only person I have rn like I want this to work but IDK WHAT TO DO DUDE

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