Is having a good connection with ex wrong?

I don't think so nah-uh..
Just don't let the relationship ruin a good friendship.. 
If you friends you friends

Not at all! PLEASE NORMALISE Having a normal healthy friendly relation with your ex🤌🏻

If you had good connection why they're Ex now and it maybe fine but there are chances to get connected to them much and struggle later 

And i think you can't accept a person as friend or something after you've in a relationship with them so there are chances to get attached to that person again

Better avoid if possible we have 130crore population. 

Don't see it with a lense of wrong or right but could ask it if he or she is comfortable in it or not. He or she knows you better so you guys turned out to a trustworthy friends for each other.

I can see changes in him..he had a bad phase back then..but i really could use a friend now...abd he is really supportive

Breakup

I am with a guy for the last 3and half years , 
for last two years we have been in long distance relationship ( different countries). I haven't seen him for two years now. it's really hard, also he is very controlling and insecure , tries to control what I wear etc . I just can't keep it up , our parents know and we decided to get married but now I am having second thoughts. Everything's seems wrong not only him but his family also tries to judge and change my life decisions ( career etc) . I want to break up but he is my comfort zone too ,plus my parents are very annoyed with my decision. I am absolutely lost.My parents consider me indecisive and that I am not taking any decision.I am scared and lost , what to do

Stress

I met thiy guy who i have been friends for a long time. He has told me about what he feels for me but nonetheless, I tell him that there are better options. He should try looking out for other girls. Yesterday when I met him I knew that I really really like him. Still not sure of my feelings but i can't afford to lose him. But, deep down I feel i dont deserve happiness. I am so wrecked. 

Adulting

I am ssooooooooo fuckingggggg  tiredddddddddddddddd. I dontttt want to be in this relationship in which iam........ My bf sayes he cant live without me and needs me and I cant say no to himmmmmmmmmm...... He says he is getting depressed........... and needs me and I dont knowww......... I am justtt so frustateddddd.................. He says if i dont stay with him he wil end up doing something wrongggg............ Fuckkk ...............................

Boyfriend

Lol. So my guy friend whom I like always kept telling me he doesn’t want to date. Now suddenly, he wants to date, just someone else. 
I’m upset cause I gave my all in our relationship of whatever it was between us. He knows how I feel about him and kept breaking my heart. Now if I want to leave the friendship, he’s angry? How does that even make any sense. 3 years constantly he led me on and then broke my heart over and over again. Made me travel 15 hours to meet him only to hurt me again. 
Is it wrong that I want to leave the friendship? Someone please give me advice.. 


3am Thoughts

I have been in a relationship for 1 and half year and it’s not getting any better. I was the one that proposed first. But the person never wanted a relationship but came because I asked so many times. I feel he came into one because of forcing not out of love,
I love him so much more than myself, but again I don’t think he loves me. He is always very rude to me. Never apologise even when we fight. 
I always beg him to come back to my life. 
He means alott to me but I don’t think I mean anything to him. 
You don’t let ur lover ones suffer right. 
I always feel lonely. I cry everyday hoping it will change and he will love me, care about me like I want to. Idk i feel stuck, depressed. 
Maybe I’m not loveable.  

Lonely

I don’t know where to start. I was in a. Relationship 4 years back. I deeply loved him but he slept with other woman. I was devastated. I was broken. I got admitted into hospital bcz of heart attack. But somehow after some month I picked myself up and Moved on. I didn’t love anyone after that. Then, this boy came into my life I will name him Trk. Trk made me feel the love again, he made me believe in love again. I couldn’t help myself but to fall for him. I love him like hell. I swear I can even die for him. I adore him so so much. But the question here is why? Why do I love him so this much? Because he did made me feel that he’s the best guy I could ever have. He motivated me, he loved me, he cheered me. When I am with him everything seems to be so happy, it’s like someone has glued a smile to my face. Everything was going so well. I never ever thought of any other guy than him. I never ever talked to any other guy but him.

Then, few months later, he started getting frustrated. He told me that it was his academic pressure, his family problems… but the problem was whatever happened he always finds one solution that is to cut off his contacts with me. He too was in a relationship before me. Some days back we fought and he told me the next day that he hasn’t moved on yet. He doesn’t love her but he has not moved on. He told me that he tried to love me but he couldn’t. Really? All this time he was trying to love me? He showed his mumma my photos, everyone in his family knows about us but he said that he tried to love me? Honestly, this is not the first time he has broken up with me. There are plenty of times that I can’t even remember. He is so short tempered. When he’s angry he doesn’t see anybody in front of him. He always tells me one thing “Let me be Alone”. We fight, we break up, and after sometime he again texts me and I go back to him without even showing any kind of anger or something. I do it because I don’t want him to suffer from any kind of depression trauma, I just want to be with him whenever he needs me… So that he doesn’t think that he’s alone. I am afraid if anyone will be able to handle his anger. I don’t know why do I love him after all the pain that he has given me, after all the sleepless nights. One thing I know about him is that he has never talked to other girls instead of me. He has never cheated on me, over tracked me…never. i texted him yesterday because I had a fight with my mum and I was very sad. But he said that he was not in a mood to chat there was some family problems of his. I told him tht whenever he needs me I’ll be there. If he wants he can talk to me. He said he don’t want to. I text him again today asking if he’s feeling better… he asked me why don’t I understand. Why don’t I just leave him to be in peace… I said sorry and blocked him.

Well! I know that I have life, I have other things to do, I need to focus on my studies,career &all. I literally know everything. I myself is good at psychology. I am the one in my college who helps people to Fight depression, anxiety. But I don’t know how do I stop myself from texting him again. I don’t know what to do… I don’t know how do I face the reality that probably he never loved me… I was his attraction that’s it. I feel so low, also my mother doesn’t talk to me… I don’t know how do I console myself. I can’t tell all this to anybody that’s why I am sharing here. Can you please give me some practical advice? Please. I don’t know how to move
forward. I just feel so lost.

Depression

I was dating him since 1 year, gradually I realised that he's not the person I want. I'm ambitious & wanted him to support & guide me but as he's not ambitious he just wanted to talk all day round, I used to talk and manage my studies later but gradually I started unloving him because of his nature. As we had come a long way in our relationship all we had to talk was sext type stuffs and nothing good & he was not interested in sharing daily life chores he did with me. I tried to telling him that I'm not liking all this by giving him some hints but he never understood and after some days I left replying him and since then it has been a month, I have not talked to him. I was not willing to and also I was very busy with my collage. I wanted to balance him & my collage together but he didn't support.He tried calling & messaging for a week &  then he left trying too. After a month, now, his female best friend is calling me but I'm not answering her. I'm very confused, I don't know whether I should talk to her or not, should I tell her what I feel or not.I haven't talked to my bf since so many days, it's obvious that he must be angry so in this situation will he understand what I want from  from  from him 
What should I actually do?

Confusion

I like a guy he is also more likely to like me back but he's confused that will he manage his work and social life together with me and I am an overthinker before he gives me an answer I already jump to one I want to be with him I told him I think you are fooling me but he said I wouldn't spoken to you after we met could have ghosted you but trust me I am confused and will let you know when I am ready with an answer. So guys help me come to an outcome I am panicking and restless thinking what if he ends up saying no ugh...

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