Is closure an over rated thing?
People say that getting a closure is really helpful in moving on from a breakup.
But I feel what good would “a last conversation” do, they are not going to say anything that will comfort you because all you want is to be with that person. And if he also wanted the same we would never have been in this situation at the very first place.
Closure is so nice. I honestly believe that everyone deserves an explanation for everything, especially the reason for the breakup. However, not everyone feels that way. It may not be what you want to hear, it may hear like shit, it may make you feel worse than you already do, but in the long run it will definitely help you move on. You wont really have any questions about the relationship because ya’ll talked about everything which is what helps you move on. Everyone is different though so maybe closure wouldn’t be the right thing for you. Whatever you think would help you move on, you should do. But I really suggest getting closure. It’ll help you a lot.
