Is anyone here good friends with their ex? Do you think it’s possible to stay friends with your ex if they were your best friend before you started dating 

Breakup

I just joined a new college and met a boy..he used to come with his friend as a excuse to meet me ..he became friends with me and then confessed that he has feelings for me ...he took too much care for me and waited for me till I move on from my past ...he said he ll never leave me if I ll be with him ..he used to come to meet me everyday..he never misbehaved or touched me ...and he respected me too much that I just fell for him ..like he was a gentleman I just fell in love ...and the moment I started having feelings he suddenly stopped talking to me ...and i never knew what was the reason...he blocked me afterwards because I was spamming him and asking about t have he been acting like this ...then now after almost 2 months he unblocked me and asked why can't we be friends..I just feel to horrible..I like that guy so much...will I ever get him again to love me ??

3am Thoughts

I feel like I am not ready for a relationship but I'm already in one..Now I love him but at the same feel like our relationship is no going to workout in the future cuz we have to struggle if we want approval of our parents which is no easy task for both of us and I feel like he will breakup cause he cares a lot about the people talks and they will talk about us and he really become sensitive when it comes to society..I know it's important to fit in society but...If we just have to struggle to fit in then it will take forever for us to fit in..Some time think we should have leave it because we were good friend What should I do??? 

Relationships

I am here again, I ended my 7 year s relationship 8 months ago. I was almost dead. But super proud of myself that I picked up and built really good habits. A few days back I found out he is dating again. I feel so useless. He got a promotion too, doing better than me in his career and his new GF also is on a better profile than me.

I feel I am a loser or just a cursed person. though I improved on a lot of aspects of my life I know that but m still far away. I feel inferior to everyone else in my life. Everyone got promotions, all our common friends, it's just me stuck on the same designation. 

I am frustrated like hell, I want to do something big in my life and show him. I know all my emotions are very kiddish, But that's what I feel now,I don't want him but I want to do big in my life and I dun know-how, I am losing my patience. why things are so hard for me. Above all, I am lonely like hell. 

Career

Shall I feel guilty, if m breaking up with someone, because m not happy with him anymore? 

my crush is my ex boyfriend,,we dated in 2020 and then he broke up w me,,and i haven't moved on since then,,and i still like him,,but he likes my bestfriend now,,and he is very rude to  me,,i feel so upset that he calls my bestfriend the whole night and never calls or texts me and also leaves meon seen,,i don't know what to do,,and my bestfriend i think she likes him back

I am someone who takes a lot of time trusting people and can't really open up. I became friends with this guy say A. I somehow felt comfortable and started trusting him a lot before than I usually trust people. I told him a lot of things about me like a lot. I showed him my vulnerable side which I haven't really shown anyone before him. He didn't really share anything which was fine I guess maybe he took time because. He told me about one of his friends let's say B who liked me so me and B start talking. I still used to tell A everything. I didn't really want anyone in our schools to know about me and B talking as I don't like to advertise my personal business. I told A not to tell anyone but I got to know that he has told one of his friend who told one of her friend and many others. I was fine with this and this wasn't a big deal so I just let it go. Then one day I told him about how I wasn't sure about my feelings for B and I wanted to take time and not commit and told him to not tell anyone especially B as I wanted to talk to him myself which I did. But then after 2 days I got to know through B that one of his friends say C asked him about this( I wasn't sure and he was which made it seem like that he was obsessed and I was just leading him on). Then B told me that his friend C has a friend through whom she got to know who is friends with A so the only way that vould have gone was that A told someone. It was the second time. It wasn't that big of a deal but still I felt like if he could tell this then he may have told all of my personal things to others. We haven't talked now since a month without any reason. He didn't message and I felt like I was being a annoying if I messaged coz he clearly didn't want to talk. It's just that for some time he really made me feel that I had somebody and then just went away just like that


#13..........Those three days of invigilation were super boring for me. The first day I survived the boredom, the next day too was kinda okay but then at night I couldn't sleep and was even tired scrolling through the social media. I saw the time it was 11pm, I tried calling few of my friends, none picked up. I was blankly looking at the ceiling when I thought of calling Mr. A up. But then again I was overthinking if he would like me calling him up at this time or not. After 15 - 20 mins. In an impulse I called him up. He picked up the call to my surprise and was very happy to hear me after so long. After couple of minutes talking with him I realised he wasn't sober. He talked to me like he had never. He was saying his secrets most of them embarassing and funny, and he also talked about how his ex cheated on him. I was listening to him patiently. It was fun to see this side of him. He said one thing about me that I never thought he would say. He said he really liked the dress I wore to my freshers and that I was looking beautiful that day but then he said he was also feeling jealous when he saw my pic with my date. I was giggling with happiness when he said this. He requested me to click a pic with him to keeping my head on his shoulders. I know he was drunk but then I said yes..........(to be continued)



Right now this is Sunday the time is 9.11. Am. what will people do on Sunday after a week of hectic work we relax and recharge and I want to spend some quality time with my husband. But he thinks the other way he loves playing badminton. I was not quite awake yet .20 minutes ago he said some one asked him to come and play.so he got ready. He said to me "I'm going to play" gave me a kiss and went away. He will return around 12 or 12.30. what should I do. Cook breakfast and eat by myself. I could have said no  don't go. Its his free time too he can do whatever he want but I want to be with him all the time.

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